On this Chinese Memorial Day, everyone, no matter who you are, what you are and where you are, should take a moment in memory of your beloved one who passed away. As for me, these last two months has been the lowest and worst moments in my life. Two months ago, my mom was diagnosed for late stage cancer and on March 20, she lost fight with the cancer and passed away peacefully. I was devastated and heartbroken. Sadly, I have to accept the fact that my beloved mom has left us forever. My only comfort is that she is not suffering anymore and in heaven with no pain. There is also no regret that I had a chance to go back to China to see and talk to her last time before she lost conscience. I hope I may find comfort in the love my mom shared with me, solace in the wisdom she gave to me and peace in the faith that I will meet her again someday. I will always remember her strength, her spirit, her ever positive attitude and her love for all of us. In this Chinese Memorial Day, while we are in memory of our beloved ones who passed away, we should not take anything for granted. Share and show your love with your family and friends. Talk to them. Spend some quality time with your beloved one. Life is short and you never know what will happen tomorrow. As for those beloved ones who passed away, I always believe they are in heaven overlooking and blessing us, and I know they are always with us in our hearts. Indyfan

Indyfan， I am so sorry about your lose. Please accept my sincere condolence. I can feel you pain for years ago, I went through the same journy. Only time can smooth the pain, and settle the kind memory we treasured in our hearts. She is in good hands now, my God bless her sole.Take good care of yourself, my friend.

No wonder have not been heard from you for a while.Very sorry to hear about your biggest loss.In ways big and small, your beloved mom's life changed our world and left it a better place. May you find comfort in knowing that caring thoughts and deepest sympathy are with you in your time of sadness.Wish your beloved mom comfort,peace in heaven.Take a good care of yourself.

So sorry to know that...Life is never easy while life is to goCherish what you have at the time beingIndyfans,take good care of yourself

So sorry for your loos. I am sure that everyone who see your message will feel TOUCHED.Take care of yourself.

Yes,it is a great lose for you,it is also a great lose for us.Everyone who see your message can feel your sincere love to your mother and your huge pain in lose your mother .However,i think everyone here want to say that Life is never easy while life is to go and take care of yourself.

看了Indyfan这个帖子才知道发生了什么事我说怎么好长时间没见到你了不知道该说什么安慰的话其实说再多也都无用多保重！

让我们好好珍惜和爱护自己身边爱你的和你爱的人，不要等到失去的时候让自己留下遗憾，希望Indyfan 同学不要伤悲，好好面对自己现在的生活，去过好每一天，那样的话我想你的妈妈也会为你开心的！！~~

我想感同身受这四个字最能代表我现在的心情。对我们这些身在异乡的人来说，即使拥有再多，也不能抹去无法跟至亲朝夕相处的隐痛。请Indyfan节哀，这是每个人都要经历的阶段，我常常想，也许有天我们不再眷恋生命，就是因为亲人的离去带来的痛让我们意识到，原来生命中有太多无法承受之痛。我们唯一能做的，就是在他们还在时，用孝顺来让他们的每一天都幸福安宁，a happy life has nothing to do with length.

在天堂的妈妈一定微笑地注视着你呢，所以你一定要好好的！！

看到这个消息，我可以感受到你的悲伤与心情的沉重！你一定要保重！这样你妈妈在天之灵会感到开心的！

子女开心的活着,微笑对待每一天,才是父母最大的安慰,保重!

Indyfan,请节哀并多多保重！“子欲养而亲不待”，我觉得这样的遗憾总是见缝插针地来教训我们这一代人，所以我们一定要倍加珍惜身边的人。

冥冥之中都是上天的安排....这样心里会宽慰一些..保重！

so sorry as well to learn the news and thank you still for posting here as you probably think we are the ones who would give a ear to listen.I myself have experienced twice of the similar kind, two of my best friends I had known since I was 6 or7, passed away in 2005 and 2007 at their early 30's respectively. Now I am no more in pain but can't hlep asking why people are so fragilge and all we think we know about a peson who died, no matter who he or she was, are mrely some clips in our minds,self rewinding and rewinding whenever we wanted to or we did not want it to .yes, indyfan is right,DO NOT take anything for granted, to those around you,I try to cherish every second that I am with them , to them more happy and to make myself happy in return , after all, life is really SHORT.Please cry your heart out when you miss your mom and meanwhile take care of your health as it is the wish not only from us but also your mom too.

抱。好好照顾自己。

看了Indyfan这个帖子才知道发生了什么事 我说怎么好长时间没见到你了 不知道该说什么安慰的话 其实说再多也都无用 多保重！ 作者： 二月筱丰 2008-4-5 23:56 　 回复此发言 删除 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 珍重!

看了Indyfan这个帖子才知道发生了什么事 我说怎么好长时间没见到你了 不知道该说什么安慰的话 其实说再多也都无用 多保重！ 作者： 二月筱丰 2008-4-5 23:56 　 回复此发言 删除 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 珍重! 作者： 人淡如菊冬迷 2008-4-7 23:01 　 回复此发言 删除 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 保重！

保重，一切都会过去，一切都会好起来！