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注:此文为David所写 如有雷同纯属巧合
我一直觉得自己有着传统婚姻观念的人--夫妻二人一起生活、抚养孩子,沉浸于爱情之中;这也是我生活中从未怀疑过的事。
想想那时我正和别人维持着异地恋,关系已然岌岌可危(异地恋真的很难维持)。我碰巧在街上遇到Neil,当时我正在百老汇Shubert剧院表演Sam Mendes 导演的音乐剧《玫瑰舞后Gypsy》而Neil恰好也在同一个导演的另一部音乐剧《酒店/歌厅Cabaret》里担任主角。
说实话,我不能算是《天才小医生》的粉丝,小时候也就看过一两集。所以,我对他说的第一句话就是淡淡地“嗨~你好~很高兴遇到你!”我真没说什么特别的,只是觉得能认识个电视明星挺好的。而我完全没有想到-做梦都不敢想的--我可以和他约会~~
I’ve always known I was going to have a monogamous relationship, raise children, and be happy in love. It was the one thing in life that I never doubted for a second.I was in another relationship when I met Neil and was doing the long-distance, New York–to-L.A. thing. It was sort of on the rocks. Long distance is so hard. I was performing in the Sam Mendes version of Gypsy on Broadway when I ran into Neil on the street. He was doing the Mendes version of Cabaret at the time, and I was with a friend who knew him pretty well. I wasn’t a big Doogie Howser fan -- I had probably seen it once or twice when I was growing up -- so I gave him a, “Hey, what’s up, nice to meet you,” and that was really it. I thought it would be nice to know him, but I didn’t think in a million years I’d start dating him.
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There’s something kinetic about him and his being. He’s classically
sexy, yet he’s very much a boy in his energy. It’s a great dynamic.
When I see people who are equally attractive, they tend to seem
more quiet and kind of Marlboro Man-y, and David’s the antithesis
of that. He’s more like Tigger. I’m, in turn, very introspective -- the
thinker, rather than the doer. I tend to weigh options before making
decisions, and David is the polar opposite of that. We’re hyper
similar and also incredibly opposite. We share a wardrobe. We have
the same shoe size, body size, height, and weight. We’re both
Gemini. We both like the idea of family -- not a nuclear family, but a
social family. Yet, we’re incredibly opposite in the way we process
information.
他很有活力,复古般的性感。当我看到有些人和他差不多有吸引力的时候,那些人更趋于安静。但是大卫却和他们相反。而我是比较内省的,更像个沉思者,而非行动者。我更喜欢在做决定之前权衡各种意见,而大卫和我完全相反。我们有很多相同点,但也有很多不同点。我们共用一个衣柜(矮油),我们穿同样大小的鞋子,同样的身材,身高,体重。我们都是双子座,我们有同样的家庭观念。但是我们在处理事情上的方式截然不同。
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Children were always talked about, but there was a certain point --
when David was in L.A. and I was working on How I Met Your Mother,
maybe season two or three -- when we both agreed that if we wanted
to have kids, we didn’t want to do it super late in the game. We
wanted our parents to enjoy the process and to be young and
vibrant enough to throw a ball with them, or to chase them around
without using a walker. That was the eternal game-changer -- now
we rarely fight in the big ways. What’s the point? We’re in this for a
major long haul.
孩子的事情我们经常都会讨论,但是有一点我们达成了共识:当大卫在L.A,而我在拍老爸老妈浪漫史的时候,大概是第二季或者第三季,我们决定,如果我们想要孩子,我们不会
要得太晚。我们希望趁着我们的父母还年轻还有活力的时候,能和他们的孙子孙女一起打球,或者和他们追逐打闹而不需要助步车。这个会是永恒的激励。我们也正走在这段艰苦
的路途上。(这你让我这种不想要孩子的人情何以堪啊)
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第二季或第三季!!!那个什么Scooter还是啥的, 在第二季第三季有出现吧! 他们一块演过...天啊, 我当时看的时候都不知道Neil是gay, 现在想想好激动啊!
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