Those Childhood DaysWhen you came into the world, she held you in her arms.　　You thanked her by weeping your eyes out.　　When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you.　　You thanked her by crying all night long.　　When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk.　　You thanked her by running away when she called.　　When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with love.　　You thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.　　When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons.　　You thanked her by coloring the dining room table.　　When you were 5 years old, she dressed you for the holidays.　　You thanked her by plopping into the nearest pile of mud.　　When you were 6 years old, she walked you to school.　　You thanked her by screaming, “I'm not going!”　　When you were 7 years old, she bought you a baseball.　　You thanked her by throwing it through the next-door-neighbor's window.　　When you were 8 years old, she handed you an ice cream.　　You thanked her by dripping it all over your lap.　　When you were 9 years old, she paid for piano lessons.　　You thanked her by never even bothering to practice.　　When you were 10 years old, she drove you all day, from soccer to gymnastics to one birthday party after another.　　You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back.　　When you were 11 years old, she took you and your friends to the movies.　　You thanked her by asking to sit in a different row.　　When you were 12 years old, she warned you not to watch certain TV shows.　　You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.Those Teenage Years　　When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming.　　You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.　　When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp.　　You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.　　When you were 15, she came home from work, looking for a hug.　　You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.　　When you were 16, she taught you how to drive her car.　　You thanked her by taking it every chance you could.　　When you were 17, she was expecting an important call.　　You thanked her by being on the phone all night.　　When you were 18, she cried at your high school graduation.　　You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.Growing Old and Gray　　When you were 19, she paid your college tuition, drove you to campus, carried your bags.　　You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of your friends.　　When you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing anyone.　　You thanked her by saying, “It's none of your business.”　　When you were 21, she suggested certain careers for your future.　　You thanked her by saying, “I don't want to be like you.”　　When you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation.　　You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe.

　　14岁时，她掏钱送你进夏令营。　　你报答她，整月没有一封信。　　15岁时，她下班回到家，期望有人拥抱她。　　你报答她，把房门反锁不理她。　　你16岁时，她手把手教你开她的车。　　你报答她，逮着机会就玩车。　　你17岁，她在等一个重要电话。　　你报答她，电话粥煲了一通宵。　　18岁你高中毕业时，她喜极而泣把泪洒。　　你报答她，在外面聚会通宵达旦不回家。　　成人、渐老　　你19岁，大学学费她买单，扛着包开车送你到学校。　　你报答她，在宿舍门外说再见，为的是不在朋友面前现大眼。　　你20岁，她问你是否在约会。　　你报答她，对她说，“这事不管不行吗！”　　你21岁，她为你将来事业提建议。　　你报答她，对她说，“我才不愿学你样！”　　你22岁，大学毕业典礼上，她伸手把你紧拥抱。　　你报答她，问她能否掏钱让你到欧洲逛一趟。　　你23岁，她为你第一套公寓置家具。　　你报答她，告诉朋友家具的模样丑。　　你24岁，她遇到你的未婚夫，问你们将来何打算。　　你报答她，对她怒目加咆哮，“妈……，得了吧，求你啦！”　　你25岁，她花钱帮你筹办婚礼，哭诉深深爱着你。　　你报答她，安家离她千万里。　　你30岁，她打来电话为宝宝抚养提忠告。　　你报答她，告诉她，“如今情况不同啦！”　　你40岁，她打电话把醒提，亲戚的生日匆忘记。　　你报答她，说你“实在忙得不用提。”　　你50岁，她病倒需要你照顾。　　你报答她，念叨父母成负担。　　后来有一天，她悄悄地去了。　　突然间，你该做未做的事，仿佛霹雳，在你耳边炸响。　　“摇啊摇，摇我这个小宝宝，一夜到天亮。”　　“摇摇篮的手啊……可以摇世界。”　　让我们花一小会儿时间，对那个叫“妈”的人表示敬意，表达感谢，虽然有些人当着面说不出口。妈妈是不可替代的。珍惜与她在一起的每一时刻吧。虽然有时候，她可能不是我们最好的朋友，可能不同意我们的想法，但妈妈就是妈妈！！！她始终陪伴你身边，听你的伤心事，听你吹大牛，听你把沮丧倾诉……。扪心自问，你是否曾经抽出过足够的时间陪伴她，听她讲围着灶台转的“伤心事”，讲她也会疲劳？？？就算你与她意见不一，也要委婉，充满爱心，对她表示出应有的尊敬。一旦她去了，剩下的就只有对过去岁月的美好回忆，还有就是终生的遗憾。　　不要以为，与你心最近，你就理所应得。　　爱她，要甚于爱你自己。　　生命中没有了她，将了无意义……