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为河南人鼓掌,向河南人致敬-不是自满   题记:我是河南人,出门在外这么多年了,对于那些流言蜚语,说河南人这不好那不好的,感到很伤心,因为在我心里,河南人不是那样子的.歧视河南人的你,真的了解河南人吗?  作为河南人的我,真想为改变河南人在别人心中的印象做些什么,但是我太渺小了,我只能做好我自己.(以下是摘自网易论坛·河南版)  不知道从什么时候起,河南人成人坏人的代名词,只要一提起河南人,就会想到骗子、皮包公司、小偷等等等等,反正是惹人烦的代号。作为一个河南人,每每听到有关河南人的议论或看到有关排斥河南人的报道,心里就不是滋味。我不是一个狭隘的地方主义者,不会说河南人都是好人,没有坏人,但我想说的是,河南人口总数已经接近一亿,如果有百分之一的坏人,那个数目就非常惊人。我想起十几年前某个外国媒体在报道一篇中国新闻时,用了一个标题是:中国有两亿人对现状不满。猛一看,吓一大跳,这两亿人相当于几个国家的人口呀。然而一想,这两亿人才占中国不到十分之二的人口呀,不满是正常的。现在看河南人的坏,也得这么看,因为有太多的河南人涌向全国各地,所以去的多了就难免会有坏人,你能说别的省就没有小偷、骗子了吗?   不可否认,每年总有许多的河南人在感动着中国,不必说在青岛巨浪前三次下水救人的魏青刚,不必说带妹求学的洪站辉,不必说民间环保家田桂荣,更不必说人民的好警察任长霞,还有很多很多的河南儿女在默默地奉献着青春和热血,他们的身份虽然平凡,也没有作出惊人的伟业,但是他们用自己的行动改变着河南,感动着中国。而这一切的发生,决不是偶然!他们,是所有河南的骄傲。   我在此列出的,仅仅是很多河南人之中的一少部分,没有别的意思,我只是想让更多的人知道,还有很多顶天立地的河南人、感天动地的河南人、可歌可泣的河南人,他们是好样的,请大家为他们鼓掌,向他们致敬!   张尚昀——背着妈妈去上学   张尚昀是一名贫困大学生,2000年10月,18岁的他刚刚踏进长春税务学院的大门,与他相依为命的母亲就不幸患病,卧床不起。面对困境他自强不息、奋勇抗争,2001年7月他向学院申请休学,一边打工挣钱为母亲看病,一边在校外刻苦自学,其间张尚昀参加税务学院6个学期的考试,5次拿到了奖学金。2004年5月,他参加了河南省税务系统公务员招录考试,在数千名考生中,取得了税务稽查岗位笔试成绩第一名的好成绩。在逆境中,对爱、责任、追求进行了最执着的守候,用他稚嫩的双肩扛住了贫因,扛住了责任,扛住了母亲生的希望,用自己的行动,彰显了中华民族大义至孝、自强不息的品德和精神。在第二届“全国十大孝贤”评选中,张尚昀被评为全国十大孝贤之首   李学生——温州舍己救儿童   李学生,河南商丘人,生前在温州一家企业务工。2005年2月20日下午5点左右,8岁的男孩小瞿和4岁的女孩媛媛在金温铁路温州市黄龙段马坑隧道口铁轨上玩耍。这时,随着一声刺耳的汽笛尖鸣,一辆火车从杭州往温州方向呼啸而来。铁轨上的两个小孩可能是给吓坏了,不知该往哪边跑。就在这危急时刻,正在对面不远处的李学生飞身跑了上来,右手抓住男孩就往铁轨外面甩,同时左手去抓较远的小媛媛。但就在李学生的手刚刚抓到小媛媛时,两个人被火车撞得飞了出去。男孩得救了,而小媛媛和舍己救人的英雄李学生两人同时不幸遇难。   2005年3月9日,河南省人民政府批准李学生为革命烈士。4月,团中央追授李学生"全国杰出进城务工青年"荣誉称号。4月5日,中共河南省委追认李学生为中共党员。4月26日,中华全国总工会追授李学生全国五一劳动奖章。( )   曹爱文——中国当代最美丽的女记者   曹爱文是河南电视台都市频道一名女记者。2006年7月10日,在一次采访落水少女的报道现场,由于医务人员没有赶到,她不是先去采访,而是挺身而出,为女孩做人工呼吸。经过多次努力,女孩最终没能醒来,曹爱文伤心地哭了。因抢救生命而放弃采访,这种在危难时刻挺身而出的举动,体现了曹爱文的正义感和责任心,体现了一名新闻工作者良好的职业道德和职业素养。她被誉为“中国当代最美丽的女记者”。()
一个故事--谁是我们最重要的人?(转) 听说过一个故事:在美国的一所大学里,快下课时,教授对自己的学生们说:“我和大家做个游戏,谁愿意配合我一下?”一名女生走上台来。 教授说:“请在黑板上写下你难以割舍的20个人的名字。”女生照做了,她写了一连串自已邻居、朋友和亲人的名字。 教授说:“请你划掉一个这里面你认为最不重要的人。”女生划掉了一个她邻居的名字。 教授又说:“请你再划掉一个。”女生又划掉了一个她的同事。 教授再说:“请你再划掉一个。”女生又划掉一个……最后,黑板上只剩下了四个人,她的父母、丈夫和孩子。 教室里非常安静,同学们静静地看着教授,感觉这似乎已不再是一个游戏了。教授平静地说:“请再划掉一个。”女生迟疑着,艰难地做着选择……她举起粉笔,划掉了自己父母的名字。“请再划掉一个。”教授的声音再度传来。这名女生惊呆了,她颤巍巍地举起粉笔,缓慢地划掉了儿子的名字。紧接着,她“哇”的一声哭了,样子非常痛苦。 教授待她稍微平静后问道:“和你最亲的人应该是你的父母和你的孩子,因为父母是养育你的人,孩子是你亲生的,而丈夫是可以重新去找的,但为什么他反倒是你最难割舍的人呢?” 同学们静静地看着自己那位女同学,等待着她的回答.女生缓慢而又坚定地说:“随着时间的推移,父母会先我而去,孩子长大成人后独立了,肯定也会离我而去。能真正陪伴我度过一生的只有我的丈夫!” 其实这是一节心理课,主题:谁是我们最重要的人。 那么,你也了解自己内心深处所渴望的恒久慰藉吗?换言之 ,你清楚自己最终将情归何处吗?不管男人还是女人,临终前, 你最希望自己的亲朋好友还是至亲爱人陪伴在你的身边呢? 随着“只要曾经拥有,不求天长地久”的可以挥霍、可以重复修饰的青春年华一点点逝去,逐渐长大成熟的我们,已不愿去做自己或他人感情记忆的碎片,我们实际上已变得更加渴望葆有持久而深刻的爱情心理体验..... 真的是这样吗?我也问过一个朋友,他开始说了很多人,有初中的同学,高中的初恋对象,大学时的导师,还有现在部队里的领导和战友,但最后的时候他说了可能是他的爱人。因为只有爱人才是相伴到老的……
Right here for waiting (My love story) The first time I met him, he didn’t give me a bright impression and I’m not such a girl who falls in love with a boy in the first sight, even though he is handsome. He was the manager of our department in a factory. As I worked together with him, I noticed he was a kind-hearted man with bright sunlight laughter and wonderful sense of humor. The office he was in filled with laughter and it didn't matter who had difficulties in the office he would help him immediately. As a result, all the colleagues in the office liked him. I was attracted to him bit by bit. Among all my colleagues, he liked making jokes with me. Sometimes he said me: “Susan, you’re very lovely.” After I thanked him, he added: “As the lovely doggie.” Then I retorted upon him: “Do you know you are very clever? You are as clever as Stephen. By the way, Stephen is my dog’s name.” “Oh, so we are the same sort.” “No, I’m human being and you are an animal. A bad dog.” I said quickly. I really didn’t like such jokes. I didn’t know why he liked making jokes with me, maybe only because I’m a simple and innocent girl. I considered him he was a kind man he always helped me as I met difficulties, as he helped others. Till one day when I went to have lunch with him, he told me he loved me. What he said happened in such a sudden and shocked me. But because of his joking manner, I thoutht he was just making a joke with me again and made nonsense. I said quickly to him: “ me, too. But I love to quarrel with you too much.” He just smiled and gazed on me, then said distinctly: “ you know it.” My face turned red and I had to leave fast and to pass him to avoid him to not show my embarrassment. In fact, I didn’t know when it happened that my heart had so much controlled by him. And I knew the truth I love him. But I felt too much self-contempt, he was too excellent in my mind and I was such a common girl with average looks and plainly dressed. I was convinced that we came from two different worlds. I never believed that a love story would happen to me like Cinderella and the prince. Just as one of A Du’s songs “you are very good”(Ni hen hao),: “I’m bad, though you know it…But you are more excellent and I will escape earlier…Too excellent is not good, the end is too bad, though you are the best, I’m in agony of pain.” So what I chose and what I did was escaped from him. I didn’t give him any chance to talk with me freely. Two weeks latter, I quitted work and got another job in another city, and changed my mobile number a new one. I was master of myself not call him though I missed him too much. Unfortunately, I was robbed one day and felt very sad. I couldn’t help calling to his office, his colleagues told me he had left to Jiangxi last week. As I called his mobile, a soft voice told me that the number I had dialed had power off. At that moment, I knew he had disappeared from my life and had lost him for my whole life. We have no chance to meet each other from now on. What I did just wanted to prove myself, just wanted to improve my self-confident, but who knows. Now I know I am not only a simple girl but also a stupid girl.
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