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【everyday】dance like no one is watching We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another.Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old enoughand we'll be more content when they are.After that we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage.We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice vacation, when we retire.The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now.If not now ... when?Your life will always be filled with challenges. It's best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway.One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred D Souza ..."For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin.But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life."This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way.So, treasure every moment that you have. And treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time ... and remember that time waits for no one ...So stop waiting until you finish school ... until you go back to school ... until you lose ten pounds ... until you gain ten pounds ... until you have kids ... until your kids leave the house ... until you start work ... until you retire ... until you get married ... until you get divorced ... until Friday night ... until Sunday morning ... until you get a new car or home ... until your car or home is paid off ... until spring, until summer ... until fall ... until winter ... until you are off welfare ... until the first or fifteenth ... until your song comes on ... until you've had a drink ... until you've sobered up ... until you die ... until you are born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy ...Happiness is a journey ... not a destination!!Thought for the day:"Work like you don't need money,Love like you've never been hurt,And dance like no one's watching."Author:Crystal Boyd
【转贴】人生的三重境界 人生有三重境界,这三重境界可以用一段充满禅机的语言来说明,这段语言便是:   看山是山,看水是水;   看山不是山,看水不是水;   看山还是山。看水还是水。   这就是说一个人的人生之初纯洁无瑕,初识世界,一切都是新鲜的,眼睛看见什么就是什么,人家告诉他这是山,他就认识了山;告诉他这是水,他就认识了水。   随着年龄渐长,经历的世事渐多,就发现这个世界的问题了。这个世界问题越来越多,越来越复杂,经常是黑白颠倒,是非混淆,无理走遍天下,有理寸步难行,好人无好报,恶人活千年。进人这个阶段,人是激愤的,不平的,忧虑的,疑问的,警惕的,复杂的。人不愿意再轻易地相信什么。人到了这个时候看山也感慨,看水也叹息,借古讽今,指桑骂槐。山自然不再是单纯的山,水自然不再是单纯的水。一切的一切都是人的主观意志的载体,所谓“好风凭借力,送我上青云”。一个人倘若停留在人生的这一 阶段,那就苦了这条性命了。人就会这山望了那山高,不停地攀登,争强好胜,与人比较,怎么做人,如何处世,绞尽脑汁,机关算尽,永无休止和满足的一天。因为这个世界原本就是一个圆的,人外还有人,天外还有天,循环往复,绿水长流。而人的生命是短暂的有限的,哪里能够去与永恒和无限计较呢?   许多人到了人生的第二重境界就到了人生的终点。追求一生.劳碌一生,心高气傲一生,最后发现自己并没有达到自己的理想,于是抱恨终生。但是有些人通过自己的修练,终于把自己提升到了第三重人生境界。茅塞顿开,回归自然。人这个时候便会专心致志做自己应该做的事情,不与旁人有任何计较。任你红尘滚滚,我自清风朗月。面对 芜杂世俗之事,一笑了之,了了有何不了,这个时候的人看山又是山,看水又是水了。正是:人本是人,不必刻意去做人;世本是世,无须精心去处世;便也就是真正的做人与处世了。
【转帖】大家期待《风尚志》1月底的陈坤封面吧 经过两个星期的等待,前些日子拍摄的陈坤封面专访终于被小yinzi登上来了~采访文章稍后补充上,先播点小新闻~1:这一次的拍摄,小yinzi特别挑选了些花型衬衫和外套来映陈坤,比如E家的衣衣,在国外的T台花生骚上可是一直繁花似锦呢。一开始,小yinzi担心会不会过于花哨了,坤儿经理人也担心这个问题。后来,问陈坤,喜欢不喜欢我挑的衣服呀。他说:很好呀,平时也不太穿这么花花的,这次的很喜欢呢。咚~一颗心终于落地~喜欢就好呵~呵呵~其实,我心理就一直肯定地想,像他这么俊的男生,不穿花衫太浪费的啦~2:去A家拿这次拍摄的衣服时(就是上次的BLOG中提到的,不太愿意出借衣服的A品牌)。据说没有衣服是因为他家的许多西装外套都已经被陈坤一早买走了,呵呵,可也不能这样就不借衣服呀是不是,对于A家店员的不紧不慢的态度,和小yinzi心急火獠的小脾气,在这里还是继续批评一下。3:现在是冬装换季期,春装又没到,所以这次给陈坤挑了几个外套都有点大尺码。不过坤儿的好脾气使他自始至终也没有说不好或者不合适。每次换装都会问下:穿这个吗~是换这双鞋吗~好的~性格NICE得很呢。4:只在拍摄的时候,他很有自己的想法。一开始就和摄影师明确地提出了自己的想法。一开始有点小误会,不过马上就被小yinzi化解了~呵呵~这个不提。小yinzi联系这次的拍摄场地有一排现代装饰感极美的鸟笼子,坤说这个场地他很喜欢。后来,拍到一半时,他对我说,咱下回能不能试试来点那种哥特式的感觉,我明年打算把自己做成那种造型。我说好呵,下次咱来个哥特的,你咋不早说呵。他说,呵呵,没事,下次有机会咱搞个哥特感觉的吧~5:为了拍摄的时候来点不一样的感觉,我们想了半天的办法。首先抛弃了现场特别富丽堂皇的背景,然后在一组餐桌前,坤儿淘气地把一只叉子放进西服前襟兜里当道具,一会又把另外一只叉子放进去了,后来大家觉得太搞了~大家一说,他不满意又拿出来了~顽皮得很~不过也蛮有想法的,呵呵,现在我知道下次知道怎么拍他了。6:小yinzi周围的许多姐们都喜欢陈坤。拍摄当天,许多路过的人也都停下来围在周围看。当天坤儿的精神很好。约好的十点集合,一点也没有迟到。问他,是不是起早了,他说是呵,再一问,还吃了早餐呢,呵呵。小yinzi就没来得及吃早餐,而且还迟到了,大明星小助理都到了,小yinzi却还慢悠悠地在路上堵着,后来张老大说,这次小yinzi可真是迟到得够撤底了,唉哟~自我批评一小下。好啦~再多的不说啦~这次的拍摄会放在一月,大家一同期待《风尚志》1月底的陈坤封面吧,会有更多更好的图和文,要来捧小yinzi的场喔。
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