We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another.Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old enoughand we'll be more content when they are.After that we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage.We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice vacation, when we retire.The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now.If not now ... when?Your life will always be filled with challenges. It's best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway.One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred D Souza ..."For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin.But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life."This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way.So, treasure every moment that you have. And treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time ... and remember that time waits for no one ...So stop waiting until you finish school ... until you go back to school ... until you lose ten pounds ... until you gain ten pounds ... until you have kids ... until your kids leave the house ... until you start work ... until you retire ... until you get married ... until you get divorced ... until Friday night ... until Sunday morning ... until you get a new car or home ... until your car or home is paid off ... until spring, until summer ... until fall ... until winter ... until you are off welfare ... until the first or fifteenth ... until your song comes on ... until you've had a drink ... until you've sobered up ... until you die ... until you are born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy ...Happiness is a journey ... not a destination!!Thought for the day:"Work like you don't need money,Love like you've never been hurt,And dance like no one's watching."Author:Crystal Boyd 

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Happiness is a journey ... not a destination!! Thought for the day: "Work like you don't need money, Love like you've never been hurt, And dance like no one's watching." ---------------------------------------------------------good thinking~~~thanks~~~little yellow flower

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good thinking~~~thanks~~~little yellow flower

宫主老是学别人（别鱼）说话。呵呵。

虽然不能完全看懂，但是知道肯定是蕴涵了小黄的情谊顶一个

Yesterday is historyTomorrow is a mysteryTODAY IS A GIFT. That's why we call it the PRESENT.---------------------------------------------------坤说过自己是“活在当下的人”，既不瞻前也不顾后。坤已经做到了珍惜今日，“用心做好手边的事情”，2006年是坤的成功之年！

忘情起舞我们总是说服自己: 结婚以後人生会更美好、有了第一个宝宝以後人生会更美好、有了第二个小孩以後会更快乐。当小孩年纪还小的时候，我们感到挫折，於是告诉自己，孩子长大之後，我们会更满足。接著，跟青少年周旋又让我们力不从心。等他们度过了这个阶段，我们一定会更快乐。我们总是告诉自己，当另一半的事业步上轨道之後，人生会更圆满；买辆更好的车之後，人生会更快乐；等到外出度个悠闲的假之後，人生就更圆满；等到退休以後，生活会更加快乐。事实上，当下就是活得愉快的最好时机。若非此刻，更待何时？人生永远充满挑战，最好是现在就认清这点，然後下定决心无论如何都保持愉快。艾尔佛列德‧索萨 (Alfred D Souza) 曾说过一段话，我非常喜欢。「曾经有很长一段时间，我以为自己就快要可以享受人生了，但是半路上总会有些阻碍，总有事情必须先处理，总有未完成的事项，必须拨空做其他事情，欠别人的还没还。然後人生就会开始了。最後，我终於领悟到，这些障碍就是我生命的一部分。」这个观点让我认清了，通往幸福的道路并不存在，幸福本身就是那条路。因此，珍惜现在拥有的每分每秒，而且，当你身边有个特别的人跟你分享，这个人特别到你可以跟他共度一生，你就要更加珍惜每个时刻，并且记住，光阴是不等人的。所以，不要再说「等到完成学业」、「等到重回校园」、「等到瘦了十磅」、「等到重了十磅」、「等到完有小孩以後」、「等到小孩离开家以後」、「等到开始工作」、「等到退休以後」、「等到结婚之後」、「等到离婚之後」、「等到星期五晚上」、「等到星期六早上」、「等到买了新车或新房」、「等到付完车贷、房贷」、「等到完成学业」、「等到春天」、「等到夏天」、「等到秋天」、「等到冬天」、「等到不必再靠社会福利过日」、「等到第一个或第十五个」、「等到喜欢的那首歌出来」、「等到喝了一杯」、「等到酒醒」、「等到死了」、「等到投胎之後明白，永远没有比当下更适合快乐的时候」。幸福是旅程，不是目的地。每日一省；「用不需要钱的态度工作，像从不曾受伤一般去爱，如同独自一人般忘情起舞吧。」作者；克里斯多‧波伊德 (Crystal Boyd)

LS是我一个朋友翻译的。感谢她。

这是考水平啊？？？唉，真得好好学英语了！！！

快一个月没看英文了，这次正好可以复习一下．看来坤吧还有这样的好处啊．

好家伙。这英文、这翻译。