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I can appre­ci­ate that Remem­ber Me is accused of hav­ing “tired story lines” or hap­pen­ing in “bored to death land”, a bad per­for­mance from Robert Pat­tin­son, and hav­ing a “dis­re­spect­ful end”. What I can say is: this movie doesn’t fol­low rules and this is not nec­es­sar­ily wrong. It is like when you learn how to write an essay, some­body tells you that a well-written paper “must” fol­low an accept­able for­mat. Remem­ber Me is an excel­lent movie and I under­stand why crit­ics are bash­ing it, it is because don’t fol­low the accept­able rules. I think that this point of view is wrong used in the case of Remem­ber Me. Like I said in my pre­vi­ous review, we expe­ri­enced a sui­cid× in our fam­ily, and I can tell that when you have to go thru this kind of tragic expe­ri­ences (like mine or mur­der) the most prob­a­ble is that noth­ing that you have to live fol­low the “rules”. Your world is com­pletely shaken by angst, regret, guilt, and you never know how are you going to react every­day. This movie is a real por­tray of what a loss like this rep­re­sents. Please, don’t be worry about see it because our pain is not con­ta­gious. This is not the swine flu. This is just a real and fair por­tray, that is unchained by the fact that the main char­ac­ter, Tyler, left some­one in to his world. Another thing that is hard to read is that crit­ics said that Remem­ber Me is “pre­dictable”. Right now, I live in San Diego, CA area. Recently the police found the corps of two high school girls rap×d and mur×dered, and I don’t think that any per­son can tell to their two unfor­tu­nate fam­i­lies how “pre­dictable” their suf­fer­ing will be, or when this must end. I am sorry; I don’t mean to be rude. I am just mak­ing my point, is very frus­trat­ing to read that some­one in this kind of tragedy can be qual­i­fied as “unhappy peo­ple”, “depressed”, “bored” or “still sad after 8 years”. Sadly, I must clar­ify that to live a expe­ri­ence like this is not a choice that peo­ple make, it just happen.

Sec­ond thing. This is some­thing that crit­ics will not like: I must say that Robert Pat­tin­son is a great actor if he didn’t live this kind of expe­ri­ence, because he under­stood and explained to audi­ence our feel­ings. I think I heard a girl express­ing about him, she told: “he sees and he lis­tens”. I must add, “he feels” and the most impor­tant thing “he trans­mits”. I pay more atten­tion and my opin­ion is that Robert Pat­tin­son in his per­for­mance as an actor has a very pow­er­ful innate instinct to trans­mit feel­ings to oth­ers. Hol­ly­wood and crit­ics can be pissed off because this not comes from an act­ing tech­nique. Is an innate per­sonal skill that com­bined with his deter­mi­na­tion gives an instant con­nec­tion with the pub­lic. In Remem­ber Me he gives a great act­ing performance.

Finally the end is not dis­re­spect­ful, because the real end is in a few sec­onds’ scenes: she over­come, they over­come. This is the only “happy end­ing” that we, the peo­ple involved in tragedy, can aspire to. We will never for­get, we will always remem­ber, and some­where, some­day and some­how we will learn to dimin­ish the pain for the loss, and start to han­dle it, in order to move on. We will always remem­ber and over­come the bad and toxic feel­ings. I under­stand the mixed reac­tions because it is related with a national tragedy, but it’s done in a respect­ful way. Every per­son has inside his or her own grief rhythm, and if the end would be dif­fer­ent, audi­ence would not con­nect whit the pos­si­ble over­come; which is the main mes­sage of the movie, and I can see that gen­eral peo­ple under­stood this bet­ter than critics.

Remem­ber Me is a great movie, a piece of art. You must see it to have your own opin­ion. You can say that I am bias, but I think that so far is the bet­ter drama movie with a mean­ing in many years.

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