吧主，今天不好意思用你的名字来发帖。“飞鸟着地丑荣迷”，怎么，贴这么多你想证明些什么？有种嘛就不要拿今天晚上刚刚注册好的用户名来这帖这么多东西，怎么不拿以前用的用户名啊？怎么，做虚心事啊？就删你，不仅删你，我还封了你。还说我无耻，我看你更适合这个词。你说会一直来贴，我也告诉你，我奉陪，宁愿不睡!你尽管去注册别的用户名,象你这样的一类见多了,也不奇怪,更不会怕你!

我也注意到这人了。就是挑拔离间来的，无耻得很。怎么会有这种变态呢，奇怪了。支持吧主~

支持吧主~

强烈同意吧主的做法！！对于满嘴都是粪的人早就应该封嘴了。痴爱

1/f,At first look, for not knowing what was actually happening, I did agree with 吧主, but then when I scanned through the ID 飞鸟着地丑荣迷 and saw his/her posting in 贴吧投诉吧, I'd changed my mind. I didn't see anything wrong or disgusting about this person who copied and pasted disgusting and malicious comments against Anita by Leslie's fans. And I did go into that attached link to verify their existence and those malicious words were truly came out from Leslie' fans bad mouths. By the unwise act in suppressing Mui fans' anger could only worsen the already intense situation. I'd once been the victim and I knew about the anger and hatred against them and the zero support from fans. Since you was not 骑蚊子看日落, I hope that you should be more considerate and wiser in handling such a conflict in the future. The victim was Anita, not 飞鸟着地丑荣迷 neither you. I must say I do understand and sympathize with 飞鸟着地丑荣迷. Anyway, the ID is given to you by 骑蚊子看日落 and you're free to do anything but hopefully next time, you'll put in more thoughts for some genuine fans who actually didn't mean to trigger war game(s), somehow needed place to pour their sudden angers in their own place. I knew their plights as I'd once been them before. I believe both you and 鸟着地丑荣迷 mean good and love Anita but somehow, such conflict was not settled in an amicable way where it should be. No matter what, 梅吧 should be a warm and comfortable place to just talk about anything revolving around Anita and her fans, nothing else. After my full recovery months ago, I did realize that the less conflict the better and nothing can beat Anita. So be all fans in peace and harmony. (p/s: Just my two cents)

楼主不是吧主啊,到底怎麽回事啊?好晕啊,怎麽搞的?不懂了.

多谢作者： 219.95.196.* 的解说 . 希望大家退一步海阔天空 .

好久没来~不知道发生了甚麽~

梅吧吧规之五：删帖：1、侮辱阿梅和梅迷，制造矛盾和冲突的言论。4、不利于梅吧团结的言论，不利于梅吧健康发展的言论。飞鸟着地丑荣迷：你在不同的帖子后面重复的回容易引起争执的同样内容的帖子，你的所做所为已经侵害了梅吧的利益和团结。如果你是一个梅迷，维护梅吧是你的职责所在。请不要发此类帖子制造矛盾。如果你是其他明星的fans，有什么话，还请到自己家里去说，不要到别人家里指指点点。如果你什么也不是，只是以八卦求自快，抱歉，梅吧不欢迎 。

倒~~~不知道发生什么事了,6,9楼的英文看得有点晕,但也猜到一点点,无论"鸟着地丑荣迷"出于何种目的动机,她是否梅迷,我觉得删贴都是正当的做法,梅吧是充满爱的地方,贴吧的发展需要一个和平稳定的环境,那些是非纷争只会制造矛盾动乱,如果真的有什么想表达,也应选取适当有效且能令大家接受的方式,避免不必要的争吵和猜测.

梅吧是大家表达对阿梅的爱与思念的地方.大家在此共话感情,喜悦悲伤一起分享.但是为何总有不和谐的声音出现呢?而往往这些声音还打着爱梅的招牌,不断说着不合时宜的是非,无聊的想挑起各种无谓的争端,居心何在呢?“飞鸟着地丑荣迷”不管你是不是梅迷,你这种做法让我不得不说,你是不适合做梅迷的.该干嘛干嘛去.

To 9/f,When other fans or outsiders posted and proved to us some malicious or offensive comments on Anita, I didn't suspect the person who posted it because he/she had pointed something disgusting about those who maligned and degraded Anita. My first reaction was to feel angry and to despise those downright despicable uneducated individuals who maligned and cursed Anita. I can understand he/she could have been very angry and couldn't control his/her temper. I believe you'd experienced my madness before but my intention was not to make troubles whatsoever in this noble forum few months ago, it was simply a sudden impulse, an impromptu anger outburst. Anyway, hope 飞鸟着地丑荣迷 to understand my English and hear to my small piece of advice if he/she is a genuine Anita's fan. Let bygone be bygone, no need to indulge further in this unproductive war game as you'll ultimately end up as a complete loser even if you've won the game.飘零2003, I trust you that you love Anita as I knew you and I'd read your previous posts. Anyway, let's forget about this very issue as all of us do not know 飞鸟着地丑荣迷 and should try to pacify the situation. Let our 吧主s to handle such case in the future.

OK.,so much for now! Let bygones be bygones! I'll never delete anything for the sake of avoiding arosing unnecessary disamenity.

注意 219.95.196.* 很久了，看了他/她蛮多发言，每次都反感莫名。虽然知道他/她确实是个梅迷。 飘零2003 你做得没错，该删除就删除。我想大家都是想维护梅吧的。大家发言都表示支持吧主所为，那你就继续履行义务吧~~~皮皮

梅吧吧规之五：删帖： 1、侮辱阿梅和梅迷，制造矛盾和冲突的言论。 4、不利于梅吧团结的言论，不利于梅吧健康发展的言论。 飞鸟着地丑荣迷：你在不同的帖子后面重复的回容易引起争执的同样内容的帖子，你的所做所为已经侵害了梅吧的利益和团结。 如果你是一个梅迷，维护梅吧是你的职责所在。请不要发此类帖子制造矛盾。 如果你是其他明星的fans，有什么话，还请到自己家里去说，不要到别人家里指指点点。 如果你什么也不是，只是以八卦求自快，抱歉，梅吧不欢迎 。 特表明态度！ 作者： 媚红颜 2005-11-1 01:51 　 回复此发言 以上引用红颜吧主的观点，我想几位吧主观点都一致，这个问题没必要再争执了，“飞鸟着地丑荣迷”我希望你
正确的
理解吧里没有人排斥发帖子的梅迷，如果你真的梅迷，希望你能权衡所发帖子的内容是否有意义。

晕~~~~~大段鸟语,看不懂.大体知道了,这个飞鸟未必是挑拨的,也未必是华迷,只是做事偏激一点.飘零也绝对不是荣迷,真他妈晕了,没事跑投诉吧去争论干马?不嫌丢人啊

飞鸟着地丑荣迷 某些观点我也认同,虽然他的做法不能认同梅吧对其他艺人确实没有象对张国荣那么尊重,可笑的是人家的歌迷比很多荣迷友善多了

To 17/f, actually you was not wrong by logic but I need to add that you should have handled such case with care because when someone is in full anger, he/she wouldn't care of what he/she did at that moment.If he/she isn't Anita's fan, he/she would not have acted so rashly and cared so much even if his/her posts were deleted. Furthermore, yours and 2/f 's (I believe the id was 皮皮) warning and provocative messages sounded like trying to challenge 飞鸟着地丑荣迷, that person could have been antagonized. There should be a better way in pacifying such an intense situation as what the old 吧主 and the real 骑蚊子看日落 did previously. They would not post any provoking message like you did although you meant good to protect Anita's forum. If you were to use the wiser method like what 11/f (媚红颜) did, I believe the situation would not be so tense then. Somehow 飞鸟着地丑荣迷 had gone overboard by complaining to 贴吧投诉吧 and this I strongly disagree with and despise his/her rashly and selfish acts. The real victim now should be 骑蚊子看日落. To 19/f, 看了皮皮蛮多发言protecting Leslie's fans and despising other artistes' fans，每次都反感莫名。虽然don't know whether you are 梅迷 or not。Anyway, it's not my business anymore. I just know how to adopt core principle of happy & healthy life and put into real life practice: "Be compassionate towards others" and you're my nth person to whom I successfully put my compassionate heart to practice. Hope you get my message. So don't worry, just be happy. (p/s: And I also do hope some genuine fans to have the first reaction, to feel angry first to those who maligned Anita and not the other way round, to feel angry first at those who've shown disrespect to Leslie.)

无论“飞鸟着地丑荣迷”是否梅迷,她的目的是否为了维护阿梅,我对这种行为都是无法认同的,我支持1楼的做法.1.如果有人辱骂阿梅,出于愤怒,为了维护阿梅,引起大家注意,大可发新贴表达抗议和不满,不是在多个贴子后面重复贴着相同内容,破坏贴子的观赏性,扰乱视线.2.“飞鸟着地丑荣迷”的态度有点问题,无论1楼是否吧主,对于真心爱阿梅,努力维护梅吧的梅迷都应尊重,而非出言不逊,更不应到贴吧投诉吧,其诚意和耐性让人质疑.3.此事发展到这个地步,“飞鸟着地丑荣迷”没有再出来说话澄清,但梅迷之间却吵起来,不见其利,先见其弊,维护阿梅的效果没看到,却造成梅迷之间的矛盾和混乱,并相互猜疑.4.梅吧需要安定团结,同时也需慎重处理贴吧之间的关系.

坦白说,我觉得大家似乎有点混淆了,把楼主的做法等同于维护Leslie.其实就我看来,1楼删贴发专贴并不是为了维护Leslie,而是为了维护梅吧,飞鸟着地丑荣迷的动机不纯,有挑拨,唯恐天下不乱的嫌疑,但是否这样,楼主的做法就等同于维护Leslie,是荣迷呢?今天易地而处,我相信我也会如楼主般的做法,不可否认,我对Leslie心存好感,但阿梅和梅吧的利益绝对凌驾于一切,我更多的是在意梅吧的安定和团结,不希望挑起无谓的骂战,让梅吧沦为战场.常有些梅迷指责我们对Leslie太好了,荣迷对阿梅不尊敬,其他明星的FANS更友善,我们应该以牙还牙,说老实的,我无法做到,对于一个曾真心照顾过阿梅的人,我无法口出恶言,别人犯了这样的错误,我更应谨记不要再犯同样的错误.对于荣迷,我感到无奈,也无意交往,道不同不相为谋,但做不成朋友,也不想做敌人,整天剑拔弩张的,搞得不得安宁.对于侮辱阿梅的恶意荣迷,我会蔑视痛恨,但却无法做到憎恨所有荣迷,排斥友好善意的荣迷,也许是我的想法有点傻,但这是错吗,只能说,每个人性格不同,待人处事的方式也有不同,希望大家能体谅包容.有时看到梅迷说Leslie的好话,表现稍为亲密,就被指是伪梅迷,是荣迷,仿佛犯了罪不可赦的滔天大罪,我会感到有点难过,如我这般,只是爱屋及乌,除了阿梅,再无更多的感情给予他人了,讨厌猜疑,人心很珍贵也很脆弱,经不起敲打,实在不希望梅迷因为其他人而互相猜忌和吵架,团结不是空洞的一句话,也需大家用心去珍惜和打造,大家可以有不同的意见,但请不要伤了和气,谢谢!