chenggang ,can you have a plan for the National Day,i hope you can use some time to communicate with us

Don't you think you are too greedy? Don't intervene in Chenggang's life! I do believe he needs privacy! Chenggang,remember,this is a habour ,where you may find comfort and love from fans,but this is not your whole world!!! Pillar

it doesn't matter to you,i just want to speak to chenggang,you can get out.

询问一下有错吗，你管的也太多了

大家不要这样了.询问的是好奇也是关心,阻止的是善意也是关心，我们都是因为关心成钢而变成朋友,起点一致,只是方法方式不用,但也应该殊途同归,为什么不能互相体谅呢?试着站在对方的角度想一分钟,好吗?

我明白了，今天上午的确有点气不过，但是我也是为了吧里的人问的，如果这样善意的问题都要遭到这样恶意的排挤，有什么意思呢？i am a boy,i want to say what i want,我不会每天说些肉麻的话，我来这里就是要交流，今天吧主说了我也没有什么好生气了，的确大家都是为了成刚，但是请那位匿名发表的芮迷注意点说话的方式。

wangkai1983 ,我明白你的心情，不过我觉得你并没有遭到恶意的排挤啊，还是那句话，每个人思考问题的角度不同嘛,我们既要接受别人的意见,也要坚持自己的观点,这看上去是矛盾的，而且，是不容易做到的，我自己其实做的也不好，但是我努力这样做.希望你也能尝试,这里毕竟是大家的家,万事要以和为贵.另外,我觉得,你对这里的女生,也包括我，是不是有些偏见呢,难道你觉得我们每天说的话，都很空洞肉麻吗.我觉得芮迷的交流都很有内容,或者说至少都是真情实感,毫不做作.可能女生喜欢一个人，跟男生喜欢一个人,表达方式差距很大很大，可是我们并不觉得想念他,喜欢他，关心他有什么不对.不能总拿一个人的是非价值观去审视和评判所有人的生活方式,要尝试着接受更多跟自己不一样的观点.就算不接受,至少可以宽容的对待.你是男生嘛,总要有点气度,有点胸襟,别为了小小的误会耿耿于怀,还是希望你能在芮吧找到属于自己的快乐.

wangkai1983,how snobbish you are! I will feel ashamed for Chenggang if he abandons his golden week just to talk with selfish guys like you! I don't think it right and proper for him to indulge himself here reading piles of messages,some of which do not make any sense! (I admit I might be one of those who give meaningless remarks). Chenggang is welcome to this harbour which to some extent gives him comforts and love whenever he feels or senses he needs to.But you can never take the helm of him or his life. He has to face the real world and address the mundane issues like how to go on well with his colleagues,or how to take the challenges posed to him,or how to take the chances,or how to recover after being hurt or fooled ,or how to date a girl he really has a crush on and so forth. So we support him and love him,but we should not be demanding fans,otherwise we might ruin his life! Pillar

呵呵！！我同意瞳瞳JJ的！！(^_^)/

Pillar 你的用心良苦很让人感动,不过你是大家的老朋友了，而楼主还是新面孔,还是希望你可以多付出一些宽容.OK?记得一句话----求同存异.

Pillar ,今天有什么地方冒犯了你,我说声对不起,但是我本来没有恶意,现在都快看笑话了,我们一笑了之,和解好吗

谢谢你wangkai1983,你的年龄很小，却这样有风度,我只想说,你很棒:)

pillar,i think you are very special,i want to speak to you

It will be real good gift for us to see both of you to shake hands with each others.

大家开开心心的在一起吧 呵呵WANGKAI 1983 我支持你 我是爱芮我怕谁 PS：芮成刚有时间就来 没时间就不来呗 呵呵 老芮 我也支持你

WANGKAI 1983 祝你考研成功 我是爱芮 我祝大家考试顺利 呵呵

wangkai1983,please forgive me fpr speaking like that. What I hope is that Chenggang will never be hurt again,but I didn't realize that I have already hurt you ,a young fan, much younger than me! Sorry,I feel terribly sorry. Please forget those vulgar words I used on you! I hadn't meant to do any harm to others,but as a matter of fact I hurt many innocent people,,including you! This probably results from my immature and impetuous personality. And the one I most want to sorry to is Chenggang. If history could be changed,I would pay at any cost! wangkai1983, now I feel much privileged to talk to you! Pillar

Claps for Wangkai1983 & Pillar, and thanks for your toleration to each other!

first i want to say i won not hurt him,i justwant to communicate with him,take it easy,pillar,it's not your mistake,your english is very good,i hope you can teach me

we are the ones who loved him so much .happy everyday ,everyone.