佳佳今日受启示:想要靠爹娘,靠男人,靠孩子都是个P! "女人切记 -要懂得自我升值"

先转一篇文章,最近挺火的:先来中文的吧华尔街金融家告诉你，为什么有钱人都不娶美女

下面是一个华尔街金融家的回帖： 　　“亲爱的波尔斯：我怀着极大的兴趣看完了贵帖，相信不少女士也有跟你类似的疑问。让我以一个投资专家的身份，对你的处境做一分析。我年薪超过50万，符合你的择偶标准，所以请相信我并不是在浪费大家的时间。 　　从生意人的角度来看，跟你结婚是个糟糕的经营决策，道理再明白不过，请听我解释。抛开细枝末节，你所说的其实是一笔简单的“财”“貌”交易：甲方提供迷人的外表，乙方出钱，公平交易，童叟无欺。但是，这里有个致命的问题，你的美貌会消逝，但我的钱却不会无缘无故减少。事实上，我的收入很可能会逐年递增，但你不可能一年比一年漂亮。 　　因此，从经济学的角度讲，我是增值资产，你是贬值资产，不但贬值，而且是加速贬值！你现在25岁，在未来的五年里，你仍可以保持窈窕的身段，俏丽的容貌，虽然每年略有退步。但美貌消逝的速度会越来越快，如果它是你仅有的资产，十年以后，你的价值堪忧。 　　用华尔街术语说，每笔交易都是一个仓位，跟你交往属于“交易仓位”（tradingposition），一但价值下跌就要立即抛售，而不宜长期持有——也就是你想要的婚姻。听起来很残忍，但对一件会加速贬值的物资，明智的选择是租赁，而不是购入，年薪能超过50万的人，当然都不是傻瓜，因此我们只会跟你交往，但不会跟你结婚。所以我劝你不要苦苦寻找嫁给有钱人的秘方。顺便说一句，你倒可以想办法把自己变成年薪50万的人，这比碰到一个有钱的傻瓜的胜算要大。 　　希望我的回帖能对你有帮助。如果你对“租赁”感兴趣，请跟我联系。”——罗波坎贝尔（J.P.摩根银行多种产业投资顾问）

凑字中，再来段英文的吧 *^@^*What am I doing wrong? (Read till the end for the answer)

　　What am I doing wrong? (Read till the end for the answer) Okay, I’m tired of beating around the bush. I’m a beautiful (spectacularly beautiful) 25 year old girl. I’m articulate and classy. I’m not from New York . I’m looking to get married to a guy who makes at least half a million a year. I know how that sounds, but keep in mind that a million a year is middle class in New York City, so I don’t think I’m overreaching at all. Are there any guys who make 500K or more on this board? Any wives? Could you send me some tips? I dated a business man who makes average around 200 - 250. But that’s where I seem to hit a roadblock. 250,000 won’t get me to central park west. I know a woman in my yoga class who was married to an investment banker and lives in Tribeca, and she’s not as pretty as I am, nor is she a great genius. So what is she doing right? How do I get to her level? Here are my questions specifically: - Where do you single rich men hang out? Give me specifics- bars, restaurants, gyms - What are you looking for in a mate? Be honest guys, you won’t hurt my feelings - Is there an age range I should be targeting (I’m 25)? - Why are some of the women living lavish lifestyles on the upper east side so plain? I’ve seen really ‘plain jane’ boring types who have nothing to offer married to incredibly wealthy guys. I’ve seen drop dead gorgeous girls in singles bars in the east village. What’s the story there?- Jobs I should look out for? Everyone knows - lawyer, investment banker, doctor. How much do those guys really make? And where do they hang out? Where do the hedge fund guys hang out?- How you decide marriage vs. just a girlfriend? I am looking for MARRIAGE ONLYPlease hold your insults - I’m putting myself out there in an honest way. Most beautiful women are superficial; at least I’m being up front about it. I wouldn’t be searching for these kind of guys if I wasn’t able to match them - in looks, culture, sophistication, and keeping a nice home and hearth. it’s NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests Craig’s List PostingID: **********************************************************

这封MAIL好几天前就有姐妹发给我了，看完只是小触动,今天跟单位里算的上有点小成功的女经理出去吃饭，算被大触动了一下.

今天与单位一算得上成功的女经理吃饭,谈到这件事情，谈到现在女孩子的感情观念,她扔下一句话:"现在想要靠父母,靠男人，靠孩子,都是个屁!只有靠自己才最真实,用自己的钱最塌实,女人要懂的自我升值,要自信,这样才会更漂亮,男人也会对你刮目相看的." 猛然觉得她说的很有道理,所以她会成功,而且还能有个幸福美满的家庭.

呵呵,确实啊，凡事以后要靠自己啊,别老指望着靠别人,老埋怨自己没有生在有钱人家里，没有含着金汤匙出生啊。

所以，姐妹们,不管你们现在多大，都要开始努力起来了!!!为将来升值做准备了!!!哈哈哈哈....

伊?奇怪了，怎么平白无故少掉一页啊???下半段的英语...靠...晕...

楼主???说的偶老陌生一样的.你可以喊偶佳佳...