人的心态很重要啊...古代两位禅师寒山和拾得有这样一段对话:寒山问拾得:世有人谤我,欺我,辱我,笑我,轻我,贱我,我当如何处之?拾得曰:只要忍他,避他,由他,耐他,不要理他,再过几年,你且看他.=========================================================Kim'note A beautiful and moving poem built around one tiny and seemingly unimportant word!I hope you'll "be" inspired by these words as much as I was!be understanding to your enemies.be loyal to your friends.be strong enough to face the world each day.be weak enough to know you cannot do everything alone.be generous to those who need your help .be frugal with what you need yourself.be wise enough to know that you do not know everything.be foolish enough to believe in miracles.be willing to share your joys.be willing to share the sorrows of others.be a leader when you see a path others have missed.be a follower when you are shrouded by the mists of uncertainty.be the first to congratulate an opponent who succeeds.be the last to criticize a colleague who fails.be sure where you next step will fall,so that you will not tumble.be sure of your final destination,in case you are going the wrong way.be loving to those who love you.be loving to those who do not love you,and they may change.above all,be yourself.

怕了BD....抽的....一楼发备用古代两位禅师寒山和拾得有这样一段对话: 寒山问拾得:世有人谤我,欺我,辱我,笑我,轻我,贱我,我当如何处之? 拾得曰:只要忍他,避他,由他,耐他,不要理他,再过几年,你且看他. ========================================================= Kim'note A beautiful and moving poem built around one tiny and seemingly unimportant word!I hope you'll "be" inspired by these words as much as I was! be understanding to your enemies. be loyal to your friends. be strong enough to face the world each day. be weak enough to know you cannot do everything alone. be generous to those who need your help . be frugal with what you need yourself. be wise enough to know that you do not know everything. be foolish enough to believe in miracles. be willing to share your joys. be willing to share the sorrows of others. be a leader when you see a path others have missed. be a follower when you are shrouded by the mists of uncertainty. be the first to congratulate an opponent who succeeds. be the last to criticize a colleague who fails. be sure where you next step will fall,so that you will not tumble. be sure of your final destination,in case you are going the wrong way. be loving to those who love you. be loving to those who do not love you,and they may change. above all,be yourself.

行走在消逝中陆勇强 儿子和老家的一条老黄狗,结下了深厚的情谊.前段时间,这条老眼昏花的黄狗,误食鼠药气绝而死.儿子大哭. 后来,他问了我一个我无法回答的问题:"是不是人也要死的?"我说是的.他又问我:"那人活这到底有什么意思?"儿子才6岁,他提出的这个问题,让我感到震惊.对于孩子的死亡教育,我无所适从. 看过一则教育片,关于美国人如何教育孩子看待生死. 每年冬天,父母会带着孩子堆一个雪人,他们把雪人打扮得十分漂亮,孩子十分喜欢这个雪人,称它为汤姆叔叔.晚上,孩子睡觉了.父母在雪人边生起了炭火,慢慢地,这个雪人开始融化.早晨,孩子打开窗帘去看他的雪人,那个雪人已经不见了.孩子十分悲伤. 父母告诉孩子:"在这个世界上,无论是谁珍爱的东西,都有可能失去,包括雪人."孩子更加悲伤.后来,父母告诉他:"雪人变成了水,在有太阳的时候,它会变成水蒸气,上升到天空,在来年冬天的时候,它又会变成了雪飘下来.就像父母和你,我们的肉体没了,但生命在你身上有了延续."孩子似懂非懂. 这个故事有点残酷,但又不得不佩服这种教育手段的高明.对于人生而言,消逝,死亡......是每个人必须面对的,但自己心爱的东西消逝后,并不是虚空的.雪人融化后,来年冬天它还会变成雪花降临大地,父母肉体消亡之后,子女仍然延续着血脉......这个世界从本质意义上讲是没有绝途的,我们行走在消逝中,但我们都有希望,都有传承.

弄艘次界拉..??......桑黑诶物摸露骨.......

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