翻译完成，如下：（从第二句开始）当他爱着你的时候,无法掩饰;当他不再爱你的时候,也是无法再假装还爱着你的,道理是一样的. 当一个人不再爱你而要离开你,你应当自问:你还爱着他吗?如果你也不再爱他,不要为了那点可怜的尊严而缠着他.如果你还爱他,那就祝福他,祝福他和他真正爱着的那个人永远在一起,永不再回头.如果你阻挠他,那就说明你从未真正爱过他.既然你从未挨过他,又有什么权利去指责他变心呢? 爱情,不是自私的占有.正如你喜欢月亮,但是你不可能把它捂在你的盆子里。不必占有，月光依然会撒进你的房间。 也就是说，你可以用另一种形式的拥有来爱一个人：让他成为你生命中永恒的记忆。 如果你真的爱一个人，那就爱他本来的样子：他的善良和邪恶，他的美德和瑕龇，不要指望他会因为你的爱而焕然一新，否则一旦情况没能如你所愿，你再也不会爱他了。 你老公写的挺好的翻出来给大家欣赏欣赏哈...

When one will leave away because of unloveing, you should ask yourself whether still love him. 原文：If you unlove him too, definitely not reluctant to leave him for poor pride. If you still love him, show your blessing, blessing he and his true lover together and donot holdback. If you holdback him to get his true blessedness, it convinces that you have not love him anymore. And that you donot love him, do you have right to rebuke his heart change? Love is not appropriation.You like the moon, but it is impossible to seize the moon immersesed in bason, the rays of moon still shine into your room however. In other words, you can love one by another form of possession to let him be the eternal memory of your life. If you really love one, love his original: his kindness and his evil, his virtue and his flaw. Do not hope one will become who you hope to due to your love, once he does not that you will not love him anymore.