criticism should be targeted, say what the current problems, the matter-like, and certainly not to blame this negligence, and it gets old accounts together count. This repeating People laugh, tend to have parents talking stopped, What? Turned out to be all of a sudden forget what to say! Had to self-mockery, said:
imagine, so that the child hates criticism of another free theme how may help solve the problem?
(3) criticized the simplistic
In many cases, children make mistakes, the performance of the parents is often the criticism is not criticism, should not be criticized when indiscriminate criticism. Many parents have experienced the phenomenon of child stay in bed, often while urging side chatter, while the children see it as background noise. Did not play the role of criticism. The children are clearly walking on the Society of late, parents certainly have a way to get children on time to school, a car can be sent, no car can be a taxi.
had parents ask me how to do this case? I said, very simple, whether he would be finished late naturally there will be schools criticized him. Because of the various ways you can not let him be late, is a shield to bear the child to stay in bed the consequences, so he have the confidence to calmly stay in bed, you call him what purpose?
like such a lot of parents are only phenomena criticism, but did not take practical and effective solution.
(4) criticized the impatience of many cases like this, the child is not even aware of the error is imminent or has already arrived, but also acutely aware of the error what the consequences of our parents have been eager not to fight a gas, usually the eyes, mouth, or even hand to the.
Furthermore, the
people make mistakes is normal for the first time to experience some things make mistakes is normal! However, parents did not give children enough time and space to experience the error, try setbacks, the children do not even know where they went, criticism and blame has been followed. This anxious for quick success, the impetuosity of criticism, tend to stifle children's creativity and limit their children's development.
why there are many children lack of interest in learning? Parents in learning activities prematurely interfere too much intervention, intervention frequently trivial to judge, but somehow criticized, leading children to learn fear, boredom and reverse psychology.
2, when criticism of the children for the first time to make mistakes, you only need to tell him why he was wrong, and how to do is right on the line. Guidance when children maintain a respectful attitude allows him to respect your opinion, to explain patiently and carefully let him know the wrong reasons and consequences, understanding the emotions he would not be the shadow of defeat bound.
if the child is once again committed a similar error, perhaps the child is still not very familiar with the right approach, perhaps the lesson is not enough so that he ignored. We should first analyze the reasons, if the former case, it is necessary to clearly explain things to understand and give him a chance to do; If the latter is the case, should it do to him appropriate criticism.