Do not know where to start, I was very trouble, I do not know or let her mother go to resign themselves to bring their own baby, since the baby was born I have been thinking about this question, I have very little to write something, do not know where to Speaking of, I hope you to the point, actually want to vent about their troubles, the spectators do not want to say it too much, then, provide sound advice is perfectly acceptable, thank you. I am a native coastal provinces, his family was a little more well off it, her husband is a stranger to the local job candidates, parents are farmers, without any savings, we are colleagues, Serendipity, and I do not consider any of the actual situation, the husband and I married, I think that was why married without love, to my parents house, the renovation costs are basically out of me, my husband is also out of some, marriage is my parents and all expenses out of my own her husband's parents are not out a penny,fake bag, just attended the wedding, but also on their home do not give a feast, and I think that there is no problem, because I think our feeling was very good, mainly because I love their husband, My husband is also very good, I think I found their own happiness. Two years later we are very natural to have children, but because my body's sake, I naturally miscarriage twice, third pregnancy, from the beginning has been in the hospital, during which my family and husband are taking good care of me, I have been discharged to live in my parents' home until the child is born, because her husband go abroad during the period, birth to my baby during confinement are my family take care of me, here to say to my mother, she would in my When children come, and in the hospital to help take care of, but is little help. Contradiction from my confinement began, because her mother and my lifestyle is completely different, she did not wash their hands after using the toilet habits, old eyes took, the more serious rhinitis, there is a basic ear can not hear, so I had to baby to take care of my sister, because she felt wronged, her husband came back one day to go abroad, because the aunt (confinement came to take care of me) and her husband to help the baby shower, she did not come with something, because it is winter, she did not come close, I said why not come close, and very cold days, you can not help no help came, and then her husband said Why can not my mother come in, because her husband said something to help her speak, and so my aunt left, I her mother would come in very loud, very loud (as she used to speak very loud) and with angry feelings accused me for a long time, I told her I was in confinement, I have done wrong, so I end up month of good health care, we talk slowly, and then I pushed her out, close the door, her ton of bricks, hard hand hit the door, keep the vent their emotions, and then I lose control, I say you do not like here, you would have no help, you wronged you go back, I do not want to quarrel with you, do good month of the body broke, she vent back to his room after completion, I am wronged I think you have emotions, I certainly did not do, but you do not have the most weak in my body time to accuse me, I never tired of the pain with you, I will give the family telephone, and later came the sisters, They first went to comfort her mother after I came to comfort me, to let everyone uncomfortable, we unanimously decided to let my mother go back, then I have to find her mother and she said you can not adapt to go back, she suddenly said I'm sorry I kneel, I was terrified, and how it can be, you are older, how can I kneel in front of me and your son, how I can stand, I can not can not understand this behavior by the way, this would passed, but in my heart left a deep imprint. Husband did not come back in the days of confinement, day and night because the baby down to sleep, I let her mother and I slept together, take care, beginning her accustomed to sleep in her room, far away from my room, I was playing phone and said her husband, she slept in the hall, but her sound asleep, not always known, and then basically take care of myself, because I have children too long hospitalization, discharge the basic bed, so the body is true, always keep a cold sweat, plus take care of the baby too hard, now I came to a back pain, and sometimes can not sleep at night, so I sometimes feel aggrieved that Macabeo did not help me do the month of. Holiday in the repair of three months, the baby all I am basically a person to take care of, from the night to take care of her husband, because 

rush home from work, prepare clothes and then give the baby a bath, fed porridge, watering, if I was his dirty clothes to wash for baby, his hurry, quick dinner, and then their own bath, laundry, boil water , sterilized milk with, looked up, and fast 10 points, and coax the baby, after a long coax after fell asleep, had more than 11 points a night, tidy is to lie down to rest immediately fall asleep, if the mother does not see 9 TV she can rest. I know I'm tired, tired of the Bank's work enough, the baby sick for some time I sleep at night one-two hours, morning and have to work, leave with the baby doctor, baby I'd like to,fake bag, I feel a tempered into a steel But I eat well, sleep very little, rapid weight loss, waist pain more and more,fake bag, I am still young and old, then how to do, but I can tolerate them, very happy to do it, though tired, is To my children. I do not know how, and mother, I would say that milk and water are corresponding, but she thinks how good milk, always put more milk, long-term damage to the baby's stomach is, in order to let the baby cry about, her mother stool baby on board, we should also push into the small toilet tease him, a cry baby from that on the hungry, give milk to drink, regardless of when the chaos, to the not admit that we came back to feed, she washed the bottle every time I have not found a clean start, why the milk was found covered with milk, I asked her, touched her hand to cover that milk is water clear, I am dizzy, I endured the temper that you gave the baby to drink milk, you tells us that we would not feed him, and it will stay bad baby, but she never acknowledged. Mother did not read the book, a word not recognize, so we can only reason she said, but she never listen to, how can I do, say more, her husband is very angry, he came to take care of the baby that her mother all the way not easy, so many demands on her, her husband and her mother is not in general, I said she heard her absent-minded, if the husband, she is certainly righteous rebuttal, let me say that she is not so because my husband and I have this problem very big contradiction, he was very angry, for I am cold, I know he is trouble, he was clearly very difficult to be caught in the middle, that is his mother, the mother is also not good enough to do wrong, so he want to go back a good mother, but her husband is only a small civil service, no savings, he basically can not rely on, so we are very troubled, I am now more tired body tired heart, her mother and father used to fight at home , she does not think that fight is going on, so every time I said how could she do, she is very unhappy that I am loud, and I want to fight the posture, I grew up and people do not fight, I feel so very tired, I am wronged, I understand she is not easy, if not because of economic reasons are not hard I do not want her to go ask her, my family always advised me, the child will always be big, you can not the children give up their careers, the job you have to be very inclusive, yes, I know I need to accommodate, but I just want to take care of her baby better, eat better, good for everyone, I understand that I can not ask a stubborn old man to change, how can I do?

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