think about it: you are told to put 1000cc of small ice cubes into a beaker of exactly 1000cc capacity, you find it impossible to do this ( because of the gaps between the ice cubes )you now have 2 choices: (1)melt the ice cubes and pour the water into the beaker(2)melt the beaker and recast another one, which is large enough to accomodate all ice cubeswhich method is easier?which method is more efficient?now you are confronted with another problem: you are incompatible with the society, the society hates you, then you should(1)change yourself to suit the society(2)try to change the society with your OWN powerwhich method is more feasible? I think the answer is obvious.conclusion: do not try to alter the way how the society works, change yourself instead