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权力的游戏经典台词 Chaos isn't a pit. Chaos is a ladder. Many who try to climb it fail, and never get to try again. The fall breaks them. And some are given a chance to climb, but they refuse. They cling to the realm, or the gods, or love: illusions. Only the ladder is real; the climb is all there is. 混乱不是深渊。混乱是阶梯。很多人想往上爬，却失败了，且永无机会再试。他们坠落而亡。有些人本有机会攀爬，但他们拒绝了。他们守着王国，守着诸神，守着爱情——尽皆幻象。唯有阶梯真实存在，攀爬才是生活的全部。 ——Petyr Baelish （小指头）

The Road Not Taken 未选择的路　　TWO roads diverged in a yellow wood, 　　And sorry I could not travel both 　　And be one traveler, long I stood 　　And looked down one as far as I could 　　To where it bent in the undergrowth; 　　黄叶林中出条岔路，　　无奈一人难于兼顾，　　顺着一条婉蜒小路，　　久久伫立极目远眺，　　只见小径拐进灌木。　　Then took the other, as just as fair, 　　And having perhaps the better claim 　　Because it was grassy and wanted wear; 　　Though as for that, the passing there 　　Had worn them really about the same, 　　接着选择了另一条，　　同样清楚似乎更好，　　引人踩踏铺满茂草，　　踏在其间难分彼此，　　尽管真有两条道。　　And both that morning equally lay 　　In leaves no step had trodden black. 　　Oh, I kept the first for another day! 　　Yet knowing how way leads on to way 　　I doubted if I should ever come back. 　　清晨里躺着两条路，　　一样叶被无人踏脏，　　愿将第一条来日补，　　但知条条相连远途，　　怀疑日后怎能回返。　　I shall be telling this with a sigh 　　Somewhere ages and ages hence: 　　Two roads diverged in a wood, and I, 　　I took the one less traveled by, 　　And that has made all the difference. 　　在很久以后某一地，　　我将叹息诉说于人，　　两路岔开在树林里，　　我选的那条足迹稀，　　而一切差别由此起。

席慕容与韩寒，比较有意思。。。韩寒说：戏结束后人还太入戏，也只能是个戏子。席慕容说，戏子在别人的故事里流着自己的眼泪。

有一种旅行叫人生 A Journey Called Life 有一种旅行叫人生 Life is like a box of chocolate, you never konw what you are gonna get. 生活就像是你面前的一盒巧克力，结果往往出人意料。 It includes happiness and sorrow, failure and success, hope and despair. Life is a learning process. Experiences in life teach us new lessons and make us a better person. With each passing day, we learn to handle various situations. 生活中有快乐难过，有成功失败，也会经历充满希望和绝望的时候。它就像是一个学习的过程。在生活中所积累的经验，给了我们新的认知，从而完善自己。随着一天一天的过去，我们学会了处理生活中出现的各式各样。 Happiness and Sorrow 快乐与痛苦 Materialistic happiness is short-lived, but it achieved by showing your smiles and transferring them to others can be lasting and get a certain sense of achievement. We,as a human being, should be aware of the importance of gratitude. Gratitude is the source of happiness or in other words, it is irrational to take others’ solicitude and love for granted 唯物主义中所说的快乐是短暂性的，但是当你把微笑传递给他人时，此时快乐就会变的持久，并且你也会有成就感。作为一个人，我们应该要意识到感恩的重要性。拥有一颗感恩的心是快乐的来源，换句话说，当你把别人对你的关心和爱看成是理所当然的时候，此时的你是不理性的。 We realize the true worth of happiness when we are in sorrow. Sorrow is basically coming out when something is out of your plate like death of a loved one, failure and despair. However,all these matters are temporary and could pass away with time going by. 当处于痛苦中时，我们就会意识到快乐的重要性。当一些不如意的事情发生的时候，比如所爱的人的离世，人生中的失败和绝望，此时，你会感到痛苦。但是，这些痛苦的记忆都是短暂的，随着时间的过去，这些事情也会消逝。Failure and Success 成功和失败 there is a motto:” failure is the mother of success.” Failure is untwined with success.It helps us to touch the sky, teach us to survive and show us a specific way to handle the complicated matters we are in face with in the daily basis.Success brings in money, fame, pride and self-respect. Here it becomes very important to keep our head on shoulder. 有一句名言：“失败是成功之母”，失败和成功是紧密联系的。它帮助我们体验生活，教我们如何生存，并且在处理日常生活中遇到的复杂事情时，给予了明确的解决方法。随之成功而来的是金钱，名誉，自豪，和尊重。此时，保持头脑清醒时非常重要的。 Hope and Despair 希望和绝望 Hope is magic that pulls people out of the edge of despair and gives them the energy to go for a bright future.Life teaches us not to regret over yesterday, for it has passed and is beyond our control. Tomorrow is unknown, for it could either be bright or dull. So the only alternative is work hard today, so that we will enjoy a better tomorrow. 希望具有魔力，它可以使在绝望边缘的人找到寻找光明的力量。生活经验告诉我们不要对昨天感到惋惜，因为昨天已成为过去，并且是我们无法控制的。明天是未知的，因为它有可能带给你光明，也有可能带个你阴霾。因此，我们所能做地就是今天努力工作，以求更好的明天。

Lesson from the Moon 月亮的启示 When the moon is fullest it begins to wane, When it is darkest it begins to grow. 月亮带给我的启示----「月盈则亏，晦则明」 -Chinese Proverb－中国谚语 There is a calm wisdom in this old saying that impressed me when I heard it first form a monk of a Buddhist monastery in China. It has often, helped me to retain a good measure of equanimity under stress and hardship as well as when some unexpected success or good luck might have made me to exuberant. There is hope and consolation in the sure knowledge that even the darkest hours of pains and troubles won’t last: but also a warning against overrating the passing glories of wealth, power and great fortune. A warning and a hope, not only for the individual, but for government, nations and their leaders, a brief summing up of all that history and human experience can tell us. And beyond all that we might hear in it an echo of the law and order that holds our universe in safe balance. 这句中国的古话，最初是由佛教寺院中的一位和尚告诉我的，当时给我的印象很深。这实在是一句至理名词，蕴含着冷静的慧智。从那时起，每当我遭逢坎坷困苦，或者遇到可能使我过于兴奋的成功或好运的时候，这句话都曾帮助我保持镇定，泰然处之。这句话提示我们，不论痛苦和忧患的时刻多么黑暗，也不会长久持续下去，因而使我们感到希望和安慰；同时也警告我们，财富、权力、和鸿运当头的荣耀，都只是过眼烟云，不可过于重视。个人如此，国家和政府领袖亦然，这句话箴言所提供的希望和警告，实在是整个历史和人类经验的结晶。除此之外，我们还可以从这句话里面，聆听到使宇宙保持平衡状态的法律与秩序的回声。

一些句子 1．记住该记住的，忘记该忘记的。改变能改变的，接受不能改变的。 Remember what should be remembered, and forget what should be forgotten.　Alter what is changeable, and accept what is mutable. 2．能冲刷一切的除了眼泪，就是时间，以时间来推移感情，时间越长，冲突越淡，仿佛不断稀释的茶。 Apart from tears, only time could wear everything away. While feeling is being processed by time, conflicts would be reconciled as time goes by, just like a cup of tea that is being continuously diluted. 3．怨言是上天得至人类最大的供物，也是人类祷告中最真诚的部分。 Complaints are the greatest offerings that God obtains from human beings, as well as the most faithful prayers human beings might utter to God. 4．智慧的代价是矛盾。这是人生对人生观开的玩笑。 Wisdom appears in contradiction to itself, which is a trick life plays on philosophy of life. 5．世上的姑娘总以为自己是骄傲的公主（除了少数极丑和少数极聪明的姑娘例外）。 Girls always look on themselves as proud princesses, with the exception of a small number of either extremely ugly or exceedingly smart ones. 6．如果敌人让你生气，那说明你还没有胜他的把握。 It can be inferred that you lack confidence in a victory over your rivals from the fact that you''re irritable against them. 7．如果朋友让你生气，那说明你仍然在意他的友情。 From that you would get angry with your friends, we can conclude you sitll care about the friendship between you. 8．令狐冲说“有些事情本身我们无法控制，只好控制自己。” 可是，他算什么！ "Something is out of our control, so we have to command ourselves." said Linghu Chong, a known character in a Chinese novel about persons adept in martial arts（武侠小说）. Who is, however, *ing he? 9．我不知道我现在做的哪些是对的，那些是错的，而当我终于老死的时候我才知道这些。所以我现在所能做的就是尽力做好每一件事，然后等待着老死。 Only till my natural death could I tell which of what I have been doing is right or wrong, so now I have to try to do well in everything, and then wait to die a natural death. 10．也许有些人很可恶，有些人很卑鄙。而当我设身为他想象的时候，我才知道：他比我还可怜。所以请原谅所有你见过的人，好人或者坏人。 Some may be wicked, and some may be despicable. Only when I put myself in their position did I know they are more miserable than I. So forgive all that you have met, no matter what kind of persons they are. 11．鱼对水说你看不到我的眼泪，因为我在水里。水说我能感觉到你的眼泪，因为你在我心里。 “You couldn't see my tears cause I am in the water.” Fish said to water. “But I could feel your tears cause you are in me.” Answered water. 12．快乐要有悲伤作陪，雨过应该就有天晴。如果雨后还是雨，如果忧伤之后还是忧伤，请让我们从容面对这离别之后的离别。微笑地去寻找一个不可能出现的你！ Happiness is accompanied by sorrow, and it would turn sunny after rain as well. If rain remains after rain and sorrow remains after sorrow, please take those farewells easy, and turn to smilingly look for yourself who is never to appear.

人生如筷 Chopsticks. Right now, millions of people are digging into their food with two sticks that have stood the test of time as a utensil for humans, even when countless thousands of other tools, gadgets and products haven't. But what's so special about them?筷子。现如今，当数不尽的工具、器具和产品都已被时间淘汰，只有筷子经受住了时间的考验，成千上万的人们用它们来夹取食物。那么它们到底有什么特别之处呢？ What can we learn from mere chopsticks?从这简简单单的筷子中，我们能学到什么？ Personally, I have used them all my life, but it was only recently I realised the depth of influence they had in many people's way of life. They teach us the importance of:对于我个人而言，我一生都在使用筷子，但直到最近，我才认识到它们深深地影响了许多人的生活方式。它们教会了我们许多重要的事： Simplicity. They can come in all kinds of colours and sizes but essentially they are just two long sticks. There's hardly anything more simple than two bits of wood being pushed together. With new technology being released everyday and adverts bombarding us with the need to be able to do more with less, multi-tasking and multiple-use devices, it is sort of refreshing to still have something which has just one use—simply to eat. Chopsticks are a living example that simplicity simply works, and we don't need to keep developing, improving and fixing things all the time.简简单单。虽然筷子颜色各异，长短不同，但实质上，它们就是两根长棍。没有比两根靠在一起就能使用的木棍更简单的东西了。在科技日新月异的今天，铺天盖地的广告告诉我们应该使用那些事半功倍的多功能设备，筷子却仍旧保持着其单一的用途——就只是用来吃饭，这还真是与众不同啊。而筷子这个活生生的实例说明：简单的东西照样能派上大用场，我们并不需要一直改善更新，发展再发展。 Versatility. Chopsticks can be used for picking up all kinds of food; meat, veg, rice, even the bones from fish, because by nature, their simplicity means that they are adaptable. Instead of aiming for a niche in an attempt to find a "gap in the market", or to fill a hole that probably doesn't need filling, they cater to a wide range purposes. Imagine being like chopsticks in this way, able to appeal to many people because you are useful, without worrying about being "more innovative" or "better" in anyway. They just do what they are made to do; they just are.运用广泛。筷子能用来夹取各种各样的食物，诸如肉、蔬菜、米饭等，还能用来挑鱼骨头，因为它们简单的本质意味着能屈能伸、适应性强。它们能满足各种广泛的要求，而非只瞄准于弥补某些市场缺口或者填补那些可能没必要填补的空白。想想筷子的哲学——用途广泛且不用担心被革新或被改善，所以深受人们喜爱。筷子只是做它本应做的，筷子就是筷子。 Aim. If you've ever tried using them, you know that you can't get what you want by just haphazardly stabbing at the plate. To be able to get what you want, you have to aim for it. There's no way you can pick up everything in one go. Know what you want, and just do it. Sometimes, a little bit of focus makes the difference between failure and success.目标明确。如果你曾经试过用筷子吃饭，就会知道在餐盘上乱戳是夹不到你想要的东西的，必须得瞄准目标下筷。你不可能一下夹到所有东西，而应认清你要什么，然后努力得到它。成功或失败有时就在于那一点点的准确性。 Practice. Using chopsticks doesn't come naturally. You have to learn to use them and practice it. But how will you learn? Should you just read about it? Most would agree that there's no better way to practice than to look at the delicious food in front of you and tell yourself that you can't have any until you can use the chopsticks to get it. In real life, you can read as much as you like about all the things you want to do, but it will just amount to dreams and theory if you don't try actually doing it. Don't just watch others eating, put yourself out there and give the chopsticks a go.熟能生巧。没人生来就会使用筷子。你必须要学着使用并不断练习。但是怎样学习呢？仅仅只是看使用说明吗？大部分人都同意最好的练习方法就是看着摆在眼前的美味食物，告诉自己不用筷子夹就不能吃。在现实生活中，你能(从书中)阅读到任何你想要做的事情，但是如果你不去试着实践，它们就仅仅只是梦想和理论。不要只看着别人吃，自己也去拿双筷子试试看。 Slowing Down. A common health tip is to try to eat with chopsticks when you can. Why? Because it slows you down and allows your stomach to tell your brain you're full before you overeat. Eating with chopsticks is a slower process, but that is not necessarily a bad thing. Sometimes we need to slow down and take things one step at a time, break it down at each stage so that we have time to think, to realise that we're actually full and that we don't have to keep charging full speed through life.放慢节奏。有一个众所周知的健康技巧是：尽可能使用筷子吃饭。为什么呢？因为它能让你放慢节奏，让肚子在吃撑前告诉大脑：你饱了。虽然用筷子吃饭是个较慢的过程，但这不见得是件坏事。有时我们需要放慢节奏，一步一步来，每个阶段停顿一下，以使我们有时间思考，认识到自己实际上已经饱了。我们没有必要总是保持高速冲刺的生活。 Sometimes it's nice to enjoy each morsel of life as it comes.有时候，按部就班地享受生活的一点一滴是很幸福的。

牧羊人咖啡 I used to like sheepherder coffee, a cup of grounds in my old enameled pot, then three cups of water and a fire,过去我喜欢牧羊人咖啡, 往我那旧搪瓷壶里倒入一杯咖啡粉, 再加三杯水及一炉火, and when it’s hot, boiling into froth, a half cup of cold water, to bring the grounds to the bottom.当咖啡烧热,沸腾冒泡, 加半杯冷水, 让咖啡粉沉底。 It was strong and bitter and good, as I squatted on the riverbank, under the great redwoods all those years ago.许多年前,当我蹲在河堤上那些, 魁梧的红杉下品尝它时, 味道那么浓,那么苦,那么好。 Some days, it was nearly all I got. I was happy with my dog, and cases of books in my funky truck.有那么一些时日,它几乎成了我仅有的一切。有我的狗和我那古怪前卫的卡车里的几箱书相伴,我很开心。 But when I think of that posture now, I can’t help but think of Palestinians huddled in their ruins,但如今,当我想起那个姿势时, 我便忍不住想到 , 蜷缩在废墟中的巴勒斯坦人, the Afghan shepherd with his bleating goats, the widow weeping, sending off her sons, the monk who can’t go home.赶着咩咩叫着的羊群的阿富汗牧羊人,哭着给儿子们送行的寡妇,无家可归的僧侣。 There are fewer names for coffee, than for love. Squatting, they drink, thinking, waiting for whatever comes.咖啡的名称远远少于, 爱的名称。他们蹲着,边喝, 边想,等待一切降临。

幸福是个过程 Happiness is a journey幸福是个过程 We always convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, than another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old enough and we'll be more content when they are. After that we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage.我们总是说服自己，认为当我们结婚、生子后日子会过的更加舒心些。然后我们又被那些小鬼的不懂事搞得不顺心，当他们大了些后，情况会好些吧。当孩子到了青春期的时候，（有时）对于如何跟他们好好交流又会使我们很无措。我们都深信当他们过了那个年龄段后，事情就会有些转机。 We always tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together. When we get a nice car, and are able to go on a nice vocation when we retire. The truth is, there's no better time than right now. If not now, when? Our life will always be filled with challenges. It's best to admit this to ourselves and decide to be happy anyway.我们总是对自己说，当另一半有条理的过活时，（我们的）人生就会很圆满。当我们买了一台漂亮的车子后，我们认为可以在年老退休后开去度假。可事实上，再也没有比当下更好的时间段了，要不是现在这时，那么还能是什么时候呢？我们的人生满是各种神奇的未知数。不管怎么说，对你我而言，最好是承认活在当下里的意义然后及时“自己给自己找乐”。 One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred Souza. He said, "for a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin - real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, someting to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life."我最看中一段尔弗雷德·苏泽说过的话。他说“一直以来，我感觉的是真正的生活就要来了。但是在前面总有些东西拦在那里，一些问题必须先被搞定后才能进行下一项，比如未完成的工作，（做事时）等着轮到自己的那段时间、等待着交钱的帐单。当这些事解决后你才能开始自己的一天。后来我才觉悟到解决这些生活琐事的时候就是我的人生。” This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So treasure every moment that you have.这样的想法使我认识到，幸福是没有方式去追求寻找的。因为寻找幸福的过程本身就是幸福。所以珍惜你所拥有的点点滴滴。 And remember that time waits for no one. So stop waiting until you finish school, until you go back to school; until you get married, until you get divorced; until you have kids; until you retire; until you get a new car or home; until spring; until you are born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy…而且还要牢记时光不会等待垂青你我。于事莫等到你毕业之后、重返校园之时再去等待（幸福）；莫身陷围城之中，来来往往，进进出出后才去等待（幸福）；莫等到你膝下饶子、莫等到你老来归园、莫等到你了自己的新车、莫等到你乔迁新居、莫等到早春迟来、莫等到你重获新生后才认识到人生本是‘莫待来日，及时行乐 ’…… Happiness is a journey, not a destination. So, work like you don't need money, love like you've never been hurt, and dance like no one's watching.寻找幸福的过程本身就是幸福，这条路上没有终点站。那么，你就要像不愁薪水那般去工作；敞开心扉那般去欢爱；旁若无人那般去歌舞。

我记得 I remember, I remember the house where I was born, the little window where the sun came peeping in at morn; he never came a wink too soon nor brought too long a day; but now, I often wish the night had borne my breath away.我记得呀，我记得：我出生的那间屋子，早晨，阳光从小窗进来窥视；他从不早来片刻，也不多留半晌，但现在，我常愿黑夜带走我的呼吸。 I remember, I remember the roses red and white, the violets and the lily-cups— those flowers made of light! The lilacs where the robin built, and where my brother set The laburnum on his birthday,— the tree is living yet!我记得呀，我记得：玫瑰花红白相映，还有紫罗兰和百合—— 全是由光织成的花朵！有知更鸟筑巢的紫丁香，还有哥哥在他生日那天种植的金链花，—— 它依然存活着！ I remember, I remember where I used to swing, and thought the air must rush as fresh to swallows on the wing; my spirit flew in feathers then that is so heavy now, and summer pools could hardly cool the fever on my brow.我记得呀，我记得：我从前常在那儿荡秋千，想着拂面的风是如此清爽，风中的飞燕肯定也感觉一样；昔日我那自在翱翔的心灵，如今变得如此沉重，即使夏日的池塘也无法冷却我额头的热狂！ I remember, I remember the fir trees dark and high; I used to think their slender tops were close against the sky: it was a childish ignorance, but now this little joy to know I’m farther off from heaven than when I was a boy.我记得呀，我记得：苍郁高耸的冷杉；我从前常以为它们细长的树梢，已经逼近天空；虽然那只是孩子的幼稚无知，但是现在却少有那般快乐我知道儿时离我那么近的天堂，如今已经越来越远了。

自由选择责任 Freedom Choice and Responsibility自由选择责任 I love choices.我爱选择。 I love to walk around in bookstores-not because I can buy all the books,我喜欢在书店里徜徉，不是因为我能买下所有的书， but because I could buy one book, and I have so many to choose from.而是因为我可以买一本书，我有这么多的选择。 I like buffets.我还喜欢自助餐。 I rarely get to go to them, but when I do,虽然我很少去，但是当我去的时候， the first thing I do is to walk around and see what the choices are.我做的第一件事就是四处逛逛，看看有什么选择。 I also like the Internet.我还喜欢互联网。 It seems like cyberspace really doesn't have any limits.看来网络真的没有任何限制。 There are so many things to discover--- like space.有这么多的东西等待被发现——比如空间。 Sometimes, I think we don't appreciate the freedom that we have.有时候，我觉得我们不喜欢我们拥有的自由。 We are free to make many different choices.我们可以自由地做出许多不同的选择。 From the food we eat--- to the places we visit--- to the people we meet--- to the classes we take and on and on and on.从我们所吃的食物到我们去的地方，我们见的人，我们所上的课程等等。 But freedom has dangers. If misused, it can be harmful.但自由也有危险。如果滥用，将会带来危害。 I could pile a mountain of food on my plate and NOT to eat it.我可以将山一样的食物堆在我的盘子里，而我则不去吃它。 It would be a waste. But that's a choice I have.它会是一种浪费。但这是一个选择。 The Internet has dangers, too.互联网也有危险。 If parents are not careful and don't supervise what their kids can see--- well kids can lose some of their innocence because of freedom.如果父母对他们的孩子所看到的不留神也不监督，那么孩子们会因为自由而失去一些他们的天真单纯。 There's a reason for legal age limits when it comes to driving, gambling, drinking,smoking, and voting.当涉及驾车、赌博、酗酒、吸烟、和投票时法律会有年龄的限制。 Until we reach that age, we aren't free to do those things.直到我们到了那个年岁，否则我们去做那些事将不会被赋予自由。

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我们也来预测下。

勇士加油，萌神加油比较喜欢萌神。。。

楼主亲身经历更新到8.1后重置手机还是8.1 但是所有的数据都没有了。。。

莫名的心悸。。。 Tomorrow is another day，Even now there is still hope left.

1991.10.3 我们都老了

找刚才在随园买饭的一个妹子红色毛衣，披肩发

“为中国而教”（TFC）2014年志愿者招募令——欢迎加入联合国教科文为中国而教招募2014年志愿者教师磨砺自我肩负中国 Teach Future China “你们之所以焦虑，是因为你们既想活得有意义，又想活得成功；你们知道你们所受的教育，让你们不只是为自己的舒适和满足而活，而是要让周围的世界因此而改变。现在，到了你们想办法实现这个目标的时候了。” ——美国哈佛大学校长德鲁•吉尔平•福斯特《致哈佛大学08届毕业生的演讲》摘录

喜升十级，惯例。占一楼先。

关于本吧头衔名的设置 1.只如初见、人生若只如初见，何事秋风悲画扇 2.此去经年、此去经年，应是良辰好景虚设。便纵有，千种风情，更与何人说。 3.素心相赠、若曾素心相赠，何方咫尺天涯。 4.犹故人归、与君初相遇，犹如故人归。 5.踏歌寻醉、何日云开山水媚，踏歌寻一醉？ 6.近月侵衣、花满市，月侵衣，少年情事老来悲。 7.青青子衿、青青子衿，悠悠我心。 8.似水流年、明·汤显祖《牡丹亭》第十出：“则为你如花美眷，似水流年。” 9.不诉离殇、陪君醉笑三千场，不诉离伤。 10.冷暖自知、如人饮水，冷暖自知。 11.一往情深、情不知所起，一往而深。 12.陌上花开、陌上花开，可缓缓归矣。 13.知与谁同、今年花胜去年红，可惜明年花更好，知与谁同。 14.伊人知否、拼今生，对花对酒，为伊泪落。---《解连环》周邦彦拼的半生为花为酒为伊人,只是伊人知否？ 15.情深不寿 16.慧极必伤 17.谦谦君子 18.温润如玉

宫崎骏童话语录 1.认清这个世界，然后爱它。就这么一辈子，下一世你可能就不再在这个世界了。有些烦恼，丢掉了，才有云淡风轻的机会。——《龙猫》

最有意境的中国古诗 1，若我白发苍苍，容颜迟暮，你会不会，依旧如此，牵我双手，倾世温柔。 2，当年相知未回音，空叹年华似流水。 3，花开两生面，人生佛魔间。 4，想人间婆娑，全无着落；看万般红紫，过眼成灰。 5，人的一生会遇到两个人，一个惊艳了时光，一个温柔了岁月。 6，玲珑骰子安红豆，入骨相思知不知。 7，心微动，奈何情已远，物也非，人也非，事事非，往日不可重。 8，时间很短，天涯很远，往后的一山一水，一朝一夕，自己安静地走完。倘若不慎走失迷途，跌入水中，也应该记得，有一条河流，叫重生。这世上任何地方，都可以生长；任何去处，都是归宿你。那么，别来找我，我亦不去寻你。守着剩下的流年，看一段岁月静好，现实安稳。

情深不寿，慧极必伤。慧极必伤，情深不寿，强极则辱，谦谦君子，温润如玉。金先生<书剑>里,乾隆送陈家洛佩玉上的刻字大意：一个人太聪明智慧便会对自己有损伤，过于沉迷和执着的感情不会持续长久，过于突出的人势必会受到屈辱，君子应该如玉一般的温润沉稳，含蓄坚毅，不张扬，却自显价值。金庸在《书剑恩仇录》中，借乾隆送陈家洛佩玉上之刻字，道出自己人生特别推崇的境界，正是这四句十六字。但很有意思的是，如此佳句居然没有人能查其出处（人们都认为其境界颇深定有出处）。有人查遍孔孟老庄，以及四书五经，均无所获，故将此难题贴于网上，一年多来终无所获，故被称为“武侠与国文的一个绝题”。其中，最接近的答案是《国风·秦风·小戎》里有“言念君子，温其如玉。”，《易经》第十五卦中有“谦谦君子”，但仅此而已。金庸“谦谦君子，温润如玉”之说不知其出处，但从《书剑》所蕴涵的他早期的人生理想来看，这似乎是金庸所推崇的一种人生境界。飞扬跳脱的个性不属于谦谦君子，因为，玉的光芒是凛于内而非形于外的。雍容自若的神采，豁达潇洒的风度，不露锋芒，不事张扬，无大悲大喜，无偏执激狂，生命的状态在这里呈现出一种成熟的圆润。佛家有一个词，圆融，是跟这种成熟的圆润颇为相似的境界。是以佛家讲求戒嗔、戒痴、戒贪，无欲无求，尔后能不动声色、不滞于心。谦谦君子的圆润亦同此理。而要达到这种境界是需要修炼的。修炼是一个很奇妙的词语，人生在世实质上就是一个修炼的过程，只不过并不是人人都可以修成正果。修成佛、修成仙是尘世之人遥不可及的梦想，但磨去棱角、收敛光华、修成谦谦君子却并非太难的事情。容人之量是修成谦谦君子的前提。斤斤计较、小肚鸡肠修不成君子，开阔的心胸、通透的眼光，才是君子的气量。于是，我们常常可以看到这样的人，荣损得失面前，总能一笑置之。正所谓，宠辱不惊，闲看庭前花开花落；去留无意，漫随天外云卷云舒。剑有双刃，谦谦君子亲切柔和，少了无拘无束的冲动莽撞，却也少了率性率真的刚猛豪放。正如一个人磨砺的过程一样，成熟的获得是以天真童趣的无可追回为代价的。当然，“情深不寿，强极则辱”的背后，似乎也透着一种淡淡的无奈。试想，人活一世，谁人不想追求恒久？只是恒久不可强求，于是退一步海阔天空。这何尝不是一种迂回的战术、以求得宛转的余地？谁能说这种淡淡的无奈不是一种生存的智慧？

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