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2019年10月29日(10:03) 懂事的人,最委屈 点点星光人,越坚强,越没人疼, 越懂事,越没人在乎, 越善良,越没人珍惜, 越讲理,越没人在意。你能干,那就多干一点, 你大度,那就多让一步, 人都是这样, 欺软怕硬,恃强凌弱。即使你做得再多,也没有人感谢, 因为习惯了你的付出, 就忽略了你的难处。即使你再坚强,也没有人理解, 因为他们明白, 再大的事,对你来说都不是事, 再大的困难,你也能全部扛过。生活让你学会了坚强, 经历让你学会了成长, 时间和年龄让你学会了迁就, 你不计较,你不动怒, 你让步,你宽容, 然而有些人,却习惯了这样的你, 一次次的变本加厉,得寸进尺, 根本不会在乎你的感受。如果你没有脾气,不懂拒绝, 就会惯坏身边的人; 如果你一直善良,没有性格, 就会伤害到你自己。不要总为了人情面子把自己委屈, 不要总因为不好拒绝为难了自己。 往往脆弱的人才有人疼, 流泪的人会有人哄, 心狠的人没人敢惹, 恶毒的人没人敢碰。所以记住了: 该冷淡时绝不热情, 该狠心时绝不手软, 该拒绝时绝不答应。 你的善良要有智商, 你的让步要有底线, 你的心软要看对谁。人啊, 不要太懂事,不要太能干, 不要太善良,不要太坚强。 有时候也该示弱一下, 也该计较一回, 让身边的人对你心疼, 让周围的人不敢欺负!
2019年10月29日(00:21) 【夜读】越难熬的时候,越要靠自己 人民日报 1 人生在世,谁都希望委屈了有人倾诉、难过了有人安慰、疲惫了有人送上肩膀。然而现实里,并不是每个人都有这样好的运气。生活中,司空见惯的是,许多艰难无法言说、许多辛酸无人懂得,很多时候只能靠自己应对。 成年人的世界,单枪匹马的“战斗”是常态。 记得有一次和朋友聊天,他说:“人生的路总是越走越孤独,虽然身边有数不清的朋友,可每个人都有自己的烦恼和困苦,大家都自顾不暇,你根本无法去依赖谁,终究只能独自去面对,学会将哭诉变成沉默,将眼泪藏在心底。” 一路走来,看到过不少人,年轻时遇到一点困难就哭天抢地,受到一点委屈就喧闹得人尽皆知。可后来,不管在多么难熬的时刻都保持沉默,不管内心有多孤独惶恐都笑着前行。 我想,前后转变的契机,不是因为变得成熟不爱说话了,而是经历过太多之后渐渐明白,不是所有的苦和累都有人分担,越是难熬的时候越要靠自己。 2 不知道你是否和我一样,曾有过一段特别难捱的日子,仿佛在黑暗中摸索着前行,看不见阳光,也不知道未来的方向在哪里。想与谁倾诉,却发现不知道该用怎样的言语去描述自己内心的感受。于是千言万语挤在嘴边,最后只化作一句淡淡的“没什么”。 几年前我辞职经商,凭着创业的激情与奋进,生意有了一点起色。但因为一次决策欠缺考虑,多年积累的资金一夜间全部赔光,不愿告诉家人实情怕他们担心。那时候口袋里只剩下150块钱,妻子打来电话说孩子要吃蛋糕。我在蛋糕店徘徊许久,还是咬牙花50块钱买了一个小小的蛋糕带回家。 两岁的孩子一不小心,把蛋糕整个扣在地上。那一瞬间,我像头凶猛的野兽一样想要发火。看着我的样子,家人根本不理解,他们觉得为了一个小蛋糕至于吗…… 看着孩子惊恐的眼神,所有的脾气都化作一缕云烟,我陷入深深的自责。那一刻我发誓,一定要努力把失去的东西再赚回来。我开始投递简历,在经历了不知多少次面试后,终于有一家公司录用了我,从此开始了早上九点上班、不知几点下班的生活。 过了几年,生活终于再次有了起色。曾经那些不能与人诉说的辛苦,经过了无数个日夜的洗礼,终究变成了让自己强大的资本。 3 如果说人生有时辛苦,那么身在其中的你我,要学会自己拯救自己。没人理解的时候,要懂得自我开导,而不是坐在原地无病呻吟;没人陪伴的时候,要学会自己接受和承担,而不是在别人身上孤注一掷。 要知道,你不努力,没人替你成长;你不勇敢,没人替你坚强。在波折不断的路上,你只有靠自己的能力和胆量,踏过眼前的荆棘,才能收获明媚的未来。 其实,每个人都一样,路要自己一步步走,苦要自己一口口吃,没有人能完全感同身受你的一切。越是难熬的时候,越要自我支撑。 生活,有光有影,有晴有雨,希望你拥有与之博弈的勇气,就算再苦再累,也能咬紧牙关,靠自己一步步走过去。 你终会在某一天发现,穿越过黑暗看见的阳光,是如此炙热;经历过风雨见到的彩虹,是如此绚烂! 来源:北叔有约(ID:beishu2016)| 作者:北叔 | 主播:陈文杰 封图来源:视觉中国 投稿邮箱:[email protected] 本期编辑:杨翘楚,实习生:刘松樾、付子晴
“Miami Freedom Park is the people’s project” “迈阿密自由公园是人民的计划”Inter Miami CF Managing Owner Jorge Mas was invited to speak on a panel titled “How to Build a World Class Stadium” for a Greater Miami Chamber of Commerce event last week. Sitting on a stage alongside ESPN’s Fernando Palomo, former Canadian International Player Kaylyn Kyle and Architect Jose Ortiz, Mas shared thoughts on the evolution of stadiums and the vision for the Miami Freedom Park project. “This is a veryexciting path and journey that we’re on,” said Mas when asked about the Major League Soccer stadium experience and what makes it appealing. “When we got involved with MLS, I saw with an extreme amount of admiration and curiosity about how they were building MLS soccer-specific stadiums. Stadiums that were anywhere from 20-25,000 seats for soccer only, which had a very different design and feel than what our traditional, larger 60-70,000 (American football) stadiums had.” “The in-game experience was amazing. Very different. It is two 45 minutes halves plus extra time that you do not get out of your seat for. You have a 15-minute break. That is when you get your food and beverage, which is a very different experience then in our three- and four-hour sports. But before everyone goes home after the second half, there is a postgame activity around the stadium for fans to cheer and talk about the game. This type of experience we should aspire to build in Miami.” When asked what makes a stadium successful, Mas said, “I am a huge believer that stadiums on their own, stand-alone are not viable. They are not economic engines and drivers. Stadiums are an anchor and thrive when surrounded with something that can provide supplemental activity around it. Stadiums need to have life other than just the 17 or so games plus playoffs, so we have aspired to build a soccer village and entertainment pavilion that can attract fans and unite them around activities that go beyond the game.” “I think we have been at the forefront of designing the kind of stadium we will see in the future in the United States,” he added. Mas, who was born and raised in Miami to Cuban parents, also emphasized the importance of representing South Florida through Inter Miami, the newest MLS franchise set to begin league play in March of 2020 at the Fort Lauderdale stadium and training complex until Miami Freedom Park is complete. “You look at David Beckham’s experience. He did not have to choose Miami. When he came into the league and he was given an option for a franchise he basically had a blank slate. He chose Miami because there’s something about Miami that talks to him, just like it does so many people who visit here and become enamored with our city.” “Miami is a wonderful city. It’s a cultural mosaic. It is a truly global city, which if you asked me to describe in one word it would be: passion. How do you capture that in the infrastructure and create a stadium that is architecturally significant and iconic,” asked Mas. “Because I agree wholeheartedly, that we need to make the stadium experience a very good one for all people. Either, for the person who wants to go with his family and can only afford a $30 ticket or the person who wants a very high-end VIP experience that a lot of Miamians have become accustomed to.” Mas and the group later discussed how to engage with fans before stadiums open. “I enjoy watching the supporters during the game as much as I do the game. Everything that we’ve done with our team, our design sessions at the architect’s office, has included our supporters.” When talking about considerations to keep in mind for supporters when the stadium opens, Mas said, “Technology is the future of stadiums.There areso many things you are going to be able to do via your phone, via technology, via holograms, via artificial intelligence that is important to consider for the fan base.” The panelists switched the conversation to discuss the importance of considering location for stadiums, including the Miami Freedom Park project. “When you look at the site of Miami Freedom Park, where the currentMelreeseGolfCourse is, it’s literally in the center of our city. Public transportation is literally 200 yards from where the stadium is going to be located. It’s a site that allows us to build something that can be an economic engine, an economic driver for our city. Because solely investing in a stadium doesn’t bring benefits.” “The entertainment and food and beverage facilities outside, and the hotels, are important aspects of the project. But most importantly the project comes at zero cost to the taxpayer. Zero.This will be the only stadium and facility in the country that will pay a fair-market lease for the land and pay property taxes. There is no other stadium in the United States of America that does that. The reason that it is zero cost to the city is that there’s an investor group willing to invest in the whole project and invest in our city.This is a project that will bring 11,000 construction jobs, and4,000 permanent well-paying jobs. It is one of the only projects in the country that will offer a $15 minimum wage. It will generate taxes to the city, county, schoolboard, and state in excess of $40 million a year. If you look at just a 20-year timeline, you are close to $1 billion dollars in fiscal benefits, besides the economic drivers of employment andall ofthe additional benefits that it brings. That’s why this site is important.” Lastly, he spoke about the global attention Club Internacional de Fútbol Miami brings South Florida as a whole. “I think Inter Miami and Miami Freedom Park will bring a significant amount of global attentionand visitors to our community. I think that what we’re preparingand what we’re presenting to our city is something which is unique, something that’s iconic and something that I think 50 years from nowwe can look back and say this stilllives, still talks to people. And again, it is a stadium that is not built for 17 or 20 games. It’s a stadium that’s built for our community to gather.” “This is the people’s project.”
新建球场选帅在即!贝克汉姆贝式银河战舰即将起航 有时候,为了建立新的东西,你必须把基础撕成碎片,这或许意味着新的希望,迈阿密融合队已经解散,劳德代尔堡也已经名存实亡,但是迈阿密即将拥有着属于他们的美职联球队。万人迷贝克汉姆组建的球队迈阿密国际已经步入实践阶段,他们获得了公投,弗罗里达州的法官已经批准贝克汉姆在劳德代尔堡建造一座新的体育场,他们将会在下赛季正式进军美职联。 就在本周,迈阿密当地举办了一场拆除活动,俱乐部和市政官员将老洛克哈特体育场夷为平地,由于和福克斯足球频道有着合作,因此本次拆除也通过电视转播传遍全球。 这座位于劳德代尔堡55街1350号,可以容纳1.8万人的体育场,经历了历史沧桑,迈阿密融合和劳德代尔堡两支球队都曾经将其当做自己的主场,这是一个美国足球史上旧的篇章的结束,同时意味着一个新的篇章开始,贝克汉姆等人将会在这里建造一座可以容纳超过1.8万名观众的体育场,并且成为美职联球队迈阿密国际的主场。据悉,新球场将会在2020年2月正式开放,预计今年7月份完成地基建设,10月安装钢材。尽量在最快的时间内投入使用。同时,建设项目还将包括一个足球培训学院,一个青年学院和一个足球社区,球场预计会花费高达10亿美元,具体落实之后,金额可能还会更多。新球场的建立,是迈阿密国际球队成型的一个巨大推动,其实贝克汉姆的修建球场计划一开始得到了诸多迈阿密当地人的反对。此前一名迈阿密的富翁布鲁斯·马修森在接受媒体时表示:“我们不需要在迈阿密仅有的高尔夫球场上修建大型购物中心,令人感到可悲的是,他们多次错误地想要将足球带到这里。”马修森的反对一定程度上说明了,至少在迈阿密,足球并不是球迷第一关注的选择,贝克汉姆想要在这里组建球队,也绝不仅仅只有修建球场这一个难题,接下来还得考虑如何让足球被更多的迈阿密居民接纳,并发展自己的球迷群体。好在,贝克汉姆并不需要过多担心球队的亏损问题,在建队前期,以贝克汉姆的人脉和明星效应,迈阿密国际会得到诸多的国际品牌赞助。再加上贝克汉姆希望组建一支贝式银河战舰,越来越多的明星级别球员加盟,迈阿密国际对商家的吸引力也将与日俱增。同时,美职联在近几年也呈现着不断上升的趋势,即便迈阿密国际没法像西雅图海湾那样场均上座率高达4万观众,维持在上万上座率也是非常有可能的。解决完球场的问题,对于贝克汉姆的迈阿密国际来说,最大的问题就是该签下什么样的球员和教练? 据悉,迈阿密国际将会在今年夏天开始引援,而其选帅工作也进入了倒计时,此前有传闻,贝克汉姆希望邀请自己昔日在曼联时期的好友,同时也曾经执教过瓦伦西亚等球队的内维斯来执教球队,不过该项传闻受到了否认。选帅和选球员现阶段还没有具体人选,不过值得肯定的是,贝克汉姆的球队将会星光璀璨。此前多支美职联新军获得成功者,大多是购买知名球星和主帅。比如亚特兰大联或者洛杉矶FC,再比如更早前的纽约城,相反老牌强队华盛顿特区联的的球迷群体则寥寥无几。迈阿密国际打出了国际的名号,更有贝克汉姆这个招牌,我们可以期待,一支群星闪耀的迈阿密国际,将会在下赛季美职联掀起风暴。
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