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﹎.﹎ 感情の语 。 决心。   人的一生有许多难以取舍,   困惑不已的琐事所纠缠着,   这时所需的就是断然的舍弃与明智的抉择,   唯一会限制我们的,   是我们自己的决心。   ________________________________________________________   理由。   逃避不一定躲的过,   面对不一定最难过,   孤单不一定不快乐,   得到不一定能长久,   失去不一定不再拥有。   你可能因为某个理由而伤心难过,   但你却能找个理由让自己快乐。   ________________________________________________________   失去。   最凄凉最弄人的不是你知道,   失去所爱的那一刻,   而是你还在徘徊,   犹未知道已经失去。   ________________________________________________________   距离。   世界上最遥远的距离,   不是生与死,   而是我就站在你面前,   你却不知道我爱你。   世界上最遥远的距离,   不是我就站在你面前,   你却不知道我爱你,   而是明明知道彼此相爱,   却不能在一起。   世界上最遥远的距离,   不是明明知道彼此相爱,   却不能在一起,   而是明明无法抵挡这股想念,   却还得故意装作丝毫没有把你放在心里。   世界上最遥远的距离,   不是明明无法抵挡这股想念,   却还得故意装作丝毫没有把你放在心里,   而是用自己冷默的心,   对爱你的人掘了一条无法跨越的沟渠。   ________________________________________________________   炫耀。   不爱了,就别向他炫耀,   向他炫耀只是代表,   你还是在意他的想法,   你还是对他念念不忘,   他看到这种窘态,   只会深信你从来没有忘记过他。   ________________________________________________________   句号。   当爱情要完结时,   你不想画上句号也不行,   当你怀疑是否主动画上句号时,   那表示你根本就拾不得,   也没办法画上这个句号。   每一段情始终会有句号,   句号要来时,   你想挡都挡不住。   ________________________________________________________   习惯。   爱情一旦成为了习惯,   就会一辈子也摆脱不了的。   ________________________________________________________   放弃。   放弃一个很爱你的人,   并不痛苦。   放弃一个你很爱的人,   那才痛苦。   爱上一个不爱你的人,   那是更痛苦。  
朋友 我想你 亲爱的,你在那边还好吗?哭着,我想念你 goodbye 2 u're my trusted friend.再见了,我忠实的朋友. we're known each other we're 9 or 10.我们从孩提时就已相识,相知. together we've climb hills trees.我们一起爬山,爬树. learned of love abc.学会去爱和其他基本知识. skinned our hearts skinned our knees.我们心意相同,情同手足. goodbye my friend it's hard 2 die.再见了朋友,我实在不愿意离去. when all the birds are singing in the sky.当所有的鸟儿在天空歌唱. now the spring in the air.空气中弥漫着春天的气息. pretty girls are everywhere.到处是漂亮的女孩. think of me i'll be there.想我了,我就会与你同在. we had joy,we had fun.我们曾共享快乐. we had seasons in the sun.也曾共享阳光季节. but the hills.但我们一起爬山 that we climbed were just seasons out of time.的那些日子已经逝去. goodbye papa please pray 4 me.再见了爸爸,请为我祈祷. i was the black sheep of the family.我是家里的害群之马. u tried 2 teach me right from wrong.你费尽心思教我明辨是非. too much wine too much song.我却沉醉于歌酒狂欢中. wonder how i got along.真不知道我以前是如何过日子的. goodbye papa is hard 2 die.再见了爸爸,我实在不愿意离去. when all the birds are singing in the sky.当所有的鸟儿在天空歌唱. now the spring in the air.空气中弥漫着春天的气息. little children everywhere.小孩子在到处嬉戏. when u see them i'll be there.当你看见他们,我就会与你同在. we had joy,we had fun.我们曾共享快乐. we had seasons in the sun.也曾共享阳光季节. but the wild the song.但昔日的歌酒狂欢. like the season has all gone.犹如季节更迭已消逝. we had joy,we had fun.我们曾共享快乐. we had seasons in the sun.也曾共享阳光季节. but the wild the song.但昔日的歌酒狂欢. like the season has all gone.犹如季节更迭已消逝. goodbye michelle my little one.再见了蜜雪儿,我的小可爱. u gave me love help me find the sun.你给了我爱,帮我找到希望. and every time that i was down.每当我意志消沉时. u should always come around.你总会来到我的身边. and get my feet back on the ground.鼓励我振作起来. goodbye michelle it's hard 2 die.再见了蜜雪儿,我实在不愿意离去. when all the birds are singing in the sky.当所有的鸟儿在天空歌唱. now the spring in the air.空气中弥漫着春天的气息. with the flowers everywhere.到处都是美丽的花朵. i wish that we could both be there !我希望我们都在那儿欢聚! we had joy,we had fun.我们曾共享快乐. we had seasons in the sun.也曾共享阳光季节. but the hills.但我们一起爬山 that we climbed were just seasons out of time.的那些日子已经逝去. we had joy,we had fun.我们曾共享快乐. we had seasons in the sun.也曾共享阳光季节. but the wild the song.但昔日的歌酒狂欢. like the season has all gone.犹如季节更迭已消逝. we had joy,we had fun.我们曾共享快乐. we had seasons in the sun.也曾共享阳光季节. but the wild the song.但昔日的歌酒狂欢. like the season has all gone.犹如季节更迭已消逝. we had joy,we had fun.我们曾共享快乐. we had seasons in the sun.也曾共享阳光季节. but the wild the song.但昔日的歌酒狂欢. like
朋友 我想你 亲爱的,你在那边还好吗?哭着,我想念你goodbye 2 u're my trusted friend.再见了,我忠实的朋友. we're known each other we're 9 or 10.我们从孩提时就已相识,相知. together we've climb hills trees.我们一起爬山,爬树. learned of love abc.学会去爱和其他基本知识. skinned our hearts skinned our knees.我们心意相同,情同手足. goodbye my friend it's hard 2 die.再见了朋友,我实在不愿意离去. when all the birds are singing in the sky.当所有的鸟儿在天空歌唱. now the spring in the air.空气中弥漫着春天的气息. pretty girls are everywhere.到处是漂亮的女孩. think of me i'll be there.想我了,我就会与你同在. we had joy,we had fun.我们曾共享快乐. we had seasons in the sun.也曾共享阳光季节. but the hills.但我们一起爬山 that we climbed were just seasons out of time.的那些日子已经逝去. goodbye papa please pray 4 me.再见了爸爸,请为我祈祷. i was the black sheep of the family.我是家里的害群之马. u tried 2 teach me right from wrong.你费尽心思教我明辨是非. too much wine too much song.我却沉醉于歌酒狂欢中. wonder how i got along.真不知道我以前是如何过日子的. goodbye papa is hard 2 die.再见了爸爸,我实在不愿意离去. when all the birds are singing in the sky.当所有的鸟儿在天空歌唱. now the spring in the air.空气中弥漫着春天的气息. little children everywhere.小孩子在到处嬉戏. when u see them i'll be there.当你看见他们,我就会与你同在. we had joy,we had fun.我们曾共享快乐. we had seasons in the sun.也曾共享阳光季节. but the wild the song.但昔日的歌酒狂欢. like the season has all gone.犹如季节更迭已消逝. we had joy,we had fun.我们曾共享快乐. we had seasons in the sun.也曾共享阳光季节. but the wild the song.但昔日的歌酒狂欢. like the season has all gone.犹如季节更迭已消逝. goodbye michelle my little one.再见了蜜雪儿,我的小可爱. u gave me love help me find the sun.你给了我爱,帮我找到希望. and every time that i was down.每当我意志消沉时. u should always come around.你总会来到我的身边. and get my feet back on the ground.鼓励我振作起来. goodbye michelle it's hard 2 die.再见了蜜雪儿,我实在不愿意离去. when all the birds are singing in the sky.当所有的鸟儿在天空歌唱. now the spring in the air.空气中弥漫着春天的气息. with the flowers everywhere.到处都是美丽的花朵. i wish that we could both be there !我希望我们都在那儿欢聚! we had joy,we had fun.我们曾共享快乐. we had seasons in the sun.也曾共享阳光季节. but the hills.但我们一起爬山 that we climbed were just seasons out of time.的那些日子已经逝去. we had joy,we had fun.我们曾共享快乐. we had seasons in the sun.也曾共享阳光季节. but the wild the song.但昔日的歌酒狂欢. like the season has all gone.犹如季节更迭已消逝. we had joy,we had fun.我们曾共享快乐. we had seasons in the sun.也曾共享阳光季节. but the wild the song.但昔日的歌酒狂欢. like the season has all gone.犹如季节更迭已消逝. we had joy,we had fun.我们曾共享快乐. we had seasons in the sun.也曾共享阳光季节. but the wild the song.但昔日的歌酒狂欢. like
毕业前 毕业后 毕业前:看到美女开跑车,因为美女流口水。   毕业后:看到美女开跑车,因为跑车流口水。   毕业前:只有偶尔耍酷在女生楼前跑两步。   毕业后:只有因为怕迟到扣20块钱,才会端着肚子跑两步。   毕业前:每个礼拜天早上醒来躺在床上遐想以后如何建立自己的媒介帝国。   毕业后:每个礼拜天早上醒来躺在床上冥思月底如何向老板提出加薪。   毕业前:常被人问,你怎么找不到女朋友?   毕业后:常被人问,你当年怎么找不到女朋友?   毕业前:看老师不爽,勇敢的当面冷嘲热讽。   毕业后:被老板狂骂,摸摸钱包忍气吞声。   毕业前:认为自己毕业后三年内一定会被磨的没了棱角,活着就像一条狗。   毕业后:发现自己当年一点时间观念都没有,根本用不了三年。而且,只要不随地大小便,当一条狗也没什么不好。   毕业前:流行的偶像都比自己大。   毕业后:流行的偶像都比自己小。   毕业前:憧憬毕业后的日子。   毕业后:缅怀毕业前的时光。   毕业前:觉得时间过的很慢,太多的时间要靠午睡来打发。   毕业后:觉得什么都没做,一个月就没了,而且太少的时间用来睡觉。   毕业前:认为自己太没想法。   毕业后:认为自己想法他妈的怎么这么多。   毕业前:觉得自己其实挺能吃苦的,就是老没有吃苦的机会。   毕业后:谁敢让我吃苦我跟他急。
【感悟人生】常想一二、不思八九,事事如意 (台湾)林青玄 朋友买来纸笔砚台,请我题几个字挂在新居客厅墙壁上。我便在朋友面前展纸、磨墨,写了四个字:“常想一二”。 朋友说:“这是什么意思?”我说:“俗语说 ‘人生不如意事十常八九’,但扣除八九成的不如意,至少还有一二成是如意的、快乐的、欣慰的事情,我们如果要过快乐人生,就要常想那一二成好事,这样就会感到庆幸、懂得珍惜,不致被八九成的不如意所打倒了。”朋友听了,非常欢喜,抱着“常想一二”回家了。 几个月之后,他来探视我,又来向我求字,说是:“每天在办公室里劳累受气,一回家之后看见那幅‘常想一二’就很开心,但是墙壁太大,字显得太小,你再写几个字吧!”对于好朋友,我一向有求必应,于是为“常想一二”写了下联“不思八九”,上面又写了“如意”的横批,中间随手画一幅写意的瓶花。 没想到过几个月,我再婚的消息披露报端,引起许多离奇的传说与流言的困扰,朋友有一天打电话来,说他正坐在客厅我写的字前面,他说“想不出什么话来安慰你,念你自己写的字给你听:常想一二、不思八九,事事如意。”接到朋友的电话使我很感动,我常觉得在别人的喜庆中锦上添花容易,在别人的苦难里雪中送炭却很困难,那种比例,大约也是八九与一二之比。不能雪中送炭的不是真朋友,当然更甭说那些落井下石的人了。 不过,一个人到了四十岁后,在生活中大概都锻炼出宠辱不惊的本事,也不会在乎锦上添花、雪中送炭或落井下石了。那是因为我们已经历过生命的痛苦与挫折,也经验了许多情感的相逢与离散,慢慢地寻索出生命中积极的、快乐的、正向的理念,这种理念,正是“常想一二”。 “常想一二”的理念,乃是在重重乌云中寻觅一丝黎明的曙光,乃是在滚滚红尘中开启一些宁静的消息,乃是在濒临窒息时,有一次深长的呼吸。生命已经够苦了,如果我们把几十年的不如意事总和起来,一定会使我们举步维艰。生活与感情陷入苦境,有时是无可奈何的,但是如果连思想和心情都陷入苦境,那就是自讨苦吃,苦上加苦了。 我从小喜欢阅读大人物的传记和回忆录,慢慢归纳出一个公式:凡是大人物都是受苦受难的,他们的生命几乎就是“人生不如意事十常八九”的真实证言,但他们在面对苦难时也都能保持正向的思考,能“常想一二”,最后他们超越苦难,苦难便化成生命中最肥沃的养料。使我深受感动的不是他们的苦难,因为苦难到处都有,使我感动的是:他们面对苦难时的坚持、乐观与勇气。 原来如意或不如意,并不是决定于人生的际遇,而是取决于思想的瞬间。 原来,决定生命品质的不是八九,而是一二。
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