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转自其他吧:Quora:为什么人一旦开始"女装"就很难停下? @首寞 若侵权冒犯可以删. Julia Reece I have a psychological theory I will use to explain this to you. Crossdressing is hard to stop because of the ways it got started in the first place. Typically, an event (or events) occurred earlier in life that planted a seed that sprouted over time and grew into a lifesize tree - complete with deep roots and branches. Let me provide an example to illustrate my point. Let’s say a boy is put into a dress as a child - maybe by an aunt, a neighbor - or even his mom. The boy is understandably confused but on some level the experience was pleasant. At the very least, the person who crossdressed the young boy was effusive in their compliments and enthusiasm over the visual results of their handiwork. Over time, this experience may be repeated. If it’s a mother crossdressing her son, this may continue on an ongoing basis. If it’s a neighbor, this may be a weekly or monthly ritual. If it’s a girlfriend, this may become an integral part of their relationship. 【老鼠的图片】 What happens psychologically is that this crossdressing experience is positively reinforced. When this happens repeatedly, the behavior becomes a habit. This is just like a mouse searching for cheese in a maze. Once the mouse figures out how to find the cheese, the subsequent searches become easier and faster. Extrapolate from this example and you can easily see how something similar would apply to people: The same dynamic explains the habit-forming behavior. This also explains why it’s so hard to stop. Consider the pros and cons of crossdressing to dive deeper into the details: #1 - Crossdressing is pleasurable for most crossdressers. If this started in childhood, whether or not another person was involved, a habit was formed early on. #2 - Through repeated experiences wearing women’s clothing, this habit was positively reinforced - and thus, extremely difficult to stop. #3 - The are multiple lines of pleasure interacting here too: The delightful feeling of having soft and silky fabrics touching one’s skin, the “turn-on factor” that often leads to sexual arousal, and the “forbidden pleasure” factor. Combined together, these can lead to a real addiction - but fortunately a relatively harmless one. 我能用心理学理论来解释这个问题。 异装这一行为之所以很难停下,跟你最开始打开这扇新世界大门的方式有关。 通常来说,个体在生命早期经历过的一个或多个事件会为个体异装的兴趣打下基础,埋下种子;接着这种子生根发芽,最后长成了一棵能够伴随个体一生的参天大树。 让我举个栗子吧: 假设有这么个男孩子,年纪还小的时候他阿姨,他邻居或者他妈给他穿上了裙子。 小男孩虽然感到十分困惑,但在某种程度上女装经历使他快乐,有一部分原因至少是因为这些打扮他的人会对自己高♂超的打扮技巧带来的视觉效果不吝溢美之词。 随着时间的推移,类似的经历或许还会重复发生。如果打扮男孩子的是母亲本人,那么这类经历就会持续下去;如果是邻居,那女装大概会成为这男孩子每个礼拜或每个月一次的例行公事;如果是女朋友,那女装简直已经成了构成他们感情的一部分。*这只小老鼠和接下来层主所提到的心理学理论有关。它实际上出自一个很著名的与操作性条件反射有关的实验,实验中的小老鼠被放置在一个箱子内,起初它四处转悠,结果不小心碰到了箱子内的一个杠杆,并因此获得了食物。小老鼠尝到甜头以后,在后续的实验中就会不断在杠杆附近专业。而操作性条件反射简而言之指的就是生物在尝到甜头(正强化)和苦头(负强化)后它行使特定行为的几率因此升高或降低了。 在这个男孩身上发生了类似的事。女装的经历给他带来了甜头(大概是因为女装时受到了来自他人的赞赏,还有部分下面提到的原因),而当类似经历被不断重复时,女装这一行为被正面强化了;因此女装久而久之成为了一种习惯。这就像是一只耗子在迷宫中四处乱转寻找起司一样。一旦这只耗子搞清楚了该怎样才能获得食物,接下来的探索就会变得简单便捷多了。通过这个例子进行推断,你就知道类似的事情是怎么作用在人类身上的了。 这个例子同时也解释了为什么异装这一行为很难停下。为了深入了解,你可以仔细想想女装带来的益处和坏处: 一:异装者们在异装时会感到身心愉悦。如果这一行为从孩童时期便开始了,那么无论行为的形成是否与他人有关,异装的爱好都会在早期形成。 二:通过反复试穿女性的服装,这一行为爱好被正强化了,所以很难戒掉。 三:通过女装得来的愉悦感可不是单单一句话能说清的:柔软而顺滑的织物在触碰肌肤时能够给个体带来宜人感;穿上本不能穿的服饰时同样能感受到禁忌的快感;女装甚至能够成为个体性兴奋的启动按钮。 将这些因素都结合在一起,就会导致个体对女装上瘾——还好这种瘾是相对无害的。
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