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八卦英语阅读“What if a foreign girl has a chinese boyfriend Hello everyone, I happened to look through the internet, looking for some information about how love is seen in China between a foreign girl and a chinese guy. But actually no real information was found. In the opposite case, if the foreigner is a male willing to date a chinese girl I was able to read the most interesting things. I am an european girl that loves China and decided to study mandarin chinese in college. I've been an exchange student in the USA during high school so this year I thought: " It's time to go to China". Me and some other collegues decided to go together. Some of them went back to europe right away. To them, China was just too hard. Instead, even if difficult, I started to like this country more and more. So I met him. Chinese, of course. He had a lot of foreign friends. He was actually always sorrounded by foreigners. As friends, he introduced me to chinese culture and helped me with the language. But then, something changed and we started looking to eachother in another way. We are now happily involved in a relationship that amazingly works. We know we are different. Sometimes I can see his way of worring too much for me. His jealousy. The fear of what other people can think if I do something that a chinese girl would never do. Some other times, he is more western than me. We have many friends in common and he knows how it works in my culture. Many times I tell him I love China and want to stay here, but it will be impossible to me to be like a chinese girl. He smiles, says he knows and tells me he doesn't regret it. It doesn't metter. But the question is, how much a chinese man is going to give up a normal chinese relationship for a mixed one? I mean, I am european, independent and live by myself since I was 16 years old. What will I be expected to do talking about a possible chinese future? How love is seen in China has always been a really interesting topic to me. But I don't know anyone in my same situation. Always and just heard about chinese girls with foreign guys.
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